Career woman trying to explain how feminine she is

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Career woman trying to explain how feminine she is
Halladay
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Halladay
I tried going out with a career woman last year. Although by no means a mean or evil woman, she started bringing up how much money she made and so forth. After not really responding to her or taking the bait, she then proceeded to try to persuade me how “feminine” she is. After the first time I didn’t really think much of it. But after 2 or 3 times I’m thinking to myself “geez… why does this woman bent on trying to persuade me how feminine she is ?” Is there some doubt in her own mind ths she isn’t especially since I have not accused her of not being feminine ? After all this , she then went into this mode of wanting to work at home and so forth.

To make a long story short.. she latched on to me and tried to persuade me she was something that she really wasn’t .. and I GOT OUT OF THAT !

So this is personal evidence enough for me to avoid career women as Noer so courageously pointed out.

I think I’ll just stick to the more non career types.

09-23-2006 01:25 PM

Re: Career woman trying to explain how feminine she is
PatriarchVerlch
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PatriarchVerlch

I’ve seen a lot of woman lately walking around dressed really feminine. I think our message is getting to these women, “It’s ok to be a lady, and dress the part.” Only feminags will have a problem seeing men with a smile on their faces, with girlie looking women.

Women have been proving for the last 30 years that men have been right for the last 30 centuries!
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09-23-2006 01:33 PM

Re: Career woman trying to explain how feminine she is
Halladay
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Halladay
Well, she dressed the part ok enough.

But what got me was .. on one hand how she bragged how much money she made. and then on the other hand, went into ordeal about she was really feminine. .. almost as if the two didn’t mix.

That was enough for me.

09-23-2006 01:39 PM

Re: Career woman trying to explain how feminine she is
PatriarchVerlch
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PatriarchVerlch

You know all about meeting chicks at bars. You get the H-bomb question usually within two minutes of conversation.

Might aswell as get to the point, “Are you rich?”

It gets old after a while. I don’t blame a woman for wanting a successful man to give her babies and a stable environment to breastfeed and make more children in. But there is something really impersonal about the whole comment.

It gets even worse the hotter the chick. If your not driving the biggest truck in town, its got to look expensive. I’m good looking, I’m just not Brad Pit quality. People could overlook my 32 year old Tom Leykis looks if I had a 7 digit bank account.

My buddy bought a 12k mercedes with 220,000 miles on it. It had the body of a 110K car, interior was still nice. We had an innumerable amount of women in that car, the first question was “Who’s car is this?” Immediately the hotter of the two chicks was after my buddy who owned the car. Or in some cases both chicks.

To me that is a shallow life. There is more to men than the size of their bank accounts. Whatever happened to women marrying their man and then inspiring him to reach for the stars, for her benefit? Not brain surgery folks.

Men don’t really care about money like the gold digging part of women do. I’ve had 40 year old, washed up chicks, try and smoother me with their buying power. So what, let’s pay our bills and be successful.

Women have been proving for the last 30 years that men have been right for the last 30 centuries!
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09-23-2006 01:52 PM

Re: Career woman trying to explain how feminine she is
toadman
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toadman

A date discussing business over wine is simply a turn-off, no more so than a guy chatting up his fav NFL team’s current stats.

09-23-2006 01:53 PM

Re: Career woman trying to explain how feminine she is
Halladay
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Halladay
well i’m more than willing to discuss football.. check out my career feminazi picking football games post lol

09-23-2006 02:11 PM

Re: Career woman trying to explain how feminine she is
barbara
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barbara

I traveled the county interviewing (getting into the minds and spirits of) 527 men for my book 527 NAKED MEN & ONE WOMAN The Adventures of a Love Investigator.  When promised anonymity, the men poured out their deepest – darkest.  Most men insisted women have a career.  Please see my website for a sample : www.527nakedmen.com

I discovered incredible anger for stay-at-home moms.  It was enlightening and disheartening. Men were thankful their mothers stayed home to raise them, and yet resented wives who chose home over career.

There were lots of other startling responses: 97% of the men would NOT die for the woman they loved… and more and more.

Thank you,
Barbara Silkstone
Barbaras0303@yahoo.com

09-25-2006 08:38 AM

Re: Career woman trying to explain how feminine she is
MartianBachelor
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MartianBachelor
“97% of the men would NOT die for the woman they loved…”

Those JERKS!

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“The loudest, most strident voices calling women weak, stupid, and incapable of competing in the world at large are the feminists.” – zed the zen priest

09-25-2006 10:24 AM

Re: Career woman trying to explain how feminine she is
Halladay
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Halladay
“There were lots of other startling responses: 97% of the men would NOT die for the woman they loved… and more and more. “

H.E.L.L. YEA .. now you are getting it ! no use for you to think old halladay is just going to give up his spot after the titanic sinks in order to save old career feminist ass.

not when you bitches take jobs away from me via affirmative action.

kiss your selective equality good bye

09-25-2006 04:43 PM

Re: Career woman trying to explain how feminine she is
khankrumthebulg
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khankrumthebulg
In 1993 while running a Family owned Flooring Store, I switched vehicles with my exwife. I took the Van and she took the Luxury Car. While Driving back to our Store in the Mountains in Northern Arizona I was shot at. It blew out the Driver’s Side window. I had the passenger window down for ventilation. I saw the bullet pass right by my eyes.

When I got to the Store. I called the Local Police. A Sniper was randomly shooting at vehicles. I told the Officer that I was grateful that I was driving and not my wife with our kids. That I would gladly sacrifice my life for my wife and children. Sadly My ex only asked what it would cost to replace the Driver’s Window. She was having an affair at the time and wanted me gone from “Her Family”. After being apart for 10 years I have gotten several apologies for her former behavior.

I believe like many Women she was heavily influenced by the changes in our culture. Many Women were unhappy being at home, unhappy at work and could not decide themselves what they wanted. We had a very traditional Family. I tried to do anything to make her happy. Gave her time alone with Friends while I took care of our children. I cooked, did laundry, household maintenance, worked with the kids on their homework. In short I was a very engaged Father.

I took time off work to have Lunch once a month with my kids, taking them out of school. For a Father’s interview. Trying to connect with them emotionally. I was a combination of the New Dad expectations and old Traditional Father and Provider. What I got was complaining, insults, in short treated like Garbage. I have spoken with many Men my age. I hear similiar stories about their issues with Women. Most are burned out to relationships. A few I know vow to never Marry or try to invest themselves emotionally again. A few are Professional Men, one is a Lawyer, another a CEO of a firm.

09-26-2006 03:40 PM

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