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Article didn’t go far enough..
Halladay
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Halladay
Don’t date career women either. Take care of this part and you won’t have to worry about marrying one.

08-27-2006 09:05 PM

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JWatkins
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JWatkins
There’s nothing wrong with dating career women, except the obnoxiously loud one’s or the ugly one’s.

Just expect things to start falling apart within a couple of months, when she needs to know where the relationship “is going”.

Just wait until she gives you a “do as I say and settle down” ultimatum, and leave. It’s happened in every single one of the career girls I’ve dated.

08-27-2006 09:13 PM

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ACatInSD
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ACatInSD

You are obnoxious!!!

It sounds that you deal with relationship as power wrestling. Why don’t you just speak up like this:

I just want to have sex whenever I want and do anything as I like. So if you are the same with me, let’s get together. Otherwise, you are too smart for me and I will go for some losers that cannot say “no” to me, becasue I want to be in control, and I like the master-slave type of relationship. Deal or not?

I bet you are over 50 years old now.

08-27-2006 09:22 PM

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Halladay
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Halladay
Yea, I mean I just try to stay away from them and not really waste my time even dating them… if I suspect they are the type that the author talked about. I weed them out and date more desirable non career types.

08-27-2006 09:34 PM

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dillonator
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dillonator
Yes, and many of these career women have abortions because it’s their careers above babies

08-27-2006 10:18 PM

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leeraconteur
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leeraconteur

It sounds that you deal with relationship as power wrestling. Why don’t you just speak up like this:

I just want to have sex whenever I want and do anything as I like. So if you are the same with me, let’s get together. Otherwise, you are too smart for me and I will go for some losers that cannot say “no” to me, because I want to be in control, and I like the master-slave type of relationship. Deal or not?

You get close to the truth.  Many women in the U.S. view relationships as nothing but a power struggle, and this never ending battle is very unattractive and unfeminine.  It is actually the women who want to dictate the terms no matter what the man earns.  This gets very tiring after you date your 3rd or 4th one like this.

When did women become so disagreeable and such poor company?

I bet you are over 50 years old now.

No, I am 45.
Besides, what does that have to do with anything?
Men who are 45 or 50 have rights too, you know.
This dismissive attitude towards men gets old, old, old.

08-27-2006 10:22 PM

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Halladay
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Halladay
50 ? Who are you talking to ? I’m actually 37 and I date the non career types in their 20’s. Cute young waitresses, elementary teachers, etc. are much much more desirable than high octane career women who are full of themselves and expect me to just marvel in amazement. It works guys. Try it.

08-27-2006 10:49 PM

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JWatkins
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JWatkins
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You are obnoxious!!!
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Hey, I paid you a compliment earlier darling. There’s no need to get feisty.

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It sounds that you deal with relationship as power wrestling. Why don’t you just speak up like this:

I just want to have sex whenever I want and do anything as I like. So if you are the same with me, let’s get together. Otherwise, you are too smart for me and I will go for some losers that cannot say “no” to me, becasue I want to be in control, and I like the master-slave type of relationship. Deal or not?
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Good advice, but that isn’t what I want. If anything, it’s women who seem intent to turn marriage and relationships into a battlefield it’s always a game of one upmanship.

As for the latter part of your post, I never delude or deceive any of the girls I court. What you said isn’t true, but so what if it was? If I find a woman who agrees with it, why do you get angry about it?

I also like young, pretty and slim girls, does that also offend you?

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I bet you are over 50 years old now.
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I’m 34.

Message Edited by JWatkins on 08-28-2006 01:20 AM

08-28-2006 01:19 AM

Re: Article didn’t go far enough..
ACatInSD
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ACatInSD

Dear JW,

I didn’t notice it was your message. In fact, I only reply to the message, without paying much attention to the sender of the message. If I offended you, I appologize, I didn’t mean to

I just didn’t feel comfortable when some of you just treat women as something inferior. I agree that there are some women who are really mean and bitchy, especially the one you hunt from the bars or clubs or on the street. But there are some very high quality ones too, who are very devoted, selfless, with good tastes. But these women won’t go out to the places you guys hang out. So please be objective, just like I believe there are very nice men out there as well.

I also didn’t mean to have any prejudice over single aged men, although I usually don’t have good impression from them No offense here as well

Better move on to some other messages before you guys find me and smash me

08-28-2006 01:54 AM

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