Should men marry gold diggers instead?


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Should men marry gold diggers instead?
Maggie_NLTS
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Maggie_NLTS

If men should not marry intelligent and successful career women, then whom should they marry?  Gold-diggers? -Maggie from NewLadderToSuccess.com

08-27-2006 09:56 PM

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Termi0n
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Termi0n

Ya that sounds like a great and well thought out idea. Good thinking Maggie.

Women want fried ice. -Arab Proverb

08-27-2006 10:01 PM

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Freeyourself
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Freeyourself

Maggie_NLTS wrote:
If men should not marry intelligent and successful career women, then whom should they marry?  Gold-diggers? -Maggie from NewLadderToSuccess.com

Some succesful women are gold-diggers just as easily as a traditional lady. Why do career women earning six figure incomes look only for men who earn more? Seems like gold digging to me.

08-27-2006 10:13 PM

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PANDORASBOX123
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PANDORASBOX123

Free—and there are more and more gold digging men on the scene nowadays…See, people are the same–just different space suit…

08-27-2006 10:16 PM

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JWatkins
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JWatkins
Why marry anyone? Is it that difficult for you to think outside the concept of marriage?

08-27-2006 10:27 PM

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SM777
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SM777
If men should not marry intelligent and successful career women, then whom should they marry? Gold-diggers? -Maggie from NewLadderToSuccess.com

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There’s always the option of staying single and enjoying sportsex.

The other option is expatriating overseas and marrying a woman from and living in another country.

I recommend that american men do not consider marrying american women as an option.

08-27-2006 10:37 PM

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PANDORASBOX123
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PANDORASBOX123

I recommend that american men do not consider marrying american women as an option.

Yes, find someone that says, “Me love you long time, honey…..”

08-28-2006 12:14 AM

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crella
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crella
‘Yes, find someone that says, “Me love you long time, honey…..”‘

Boy, are you predictable.

08-28-2006 04:42 AM

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SM777
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SM777
“Yes, find someone that says, “Me love you long time, honey…..””
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Why yes, that’s exactly what I had in mind.

Heh. Heh.

08-28-2006 07:32 AM

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hendew2001
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hendew2001

Yeah, professional women DO want a guy who makes as much money as they do.  They rarely stoop lower like men do!  This is a huge problem and ensures poverty because women won’t stoop lower, so instead of two kids ending up in college–because woemn want a fellow 6 figure guy, the poor people must marry each other–and their kid won’t go to college.

Gold-digging–and not money–is the root of all evil.  Men try to get the money to get the poontang, and they’ll sell drugs and commit crimes to get to that poontang!

08-28-2006 04:43 PM

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PANDORASBOX123
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‘Yes, find someone that says, “Me love you long time, honey…..”‘

Boy, are you predictable.

Crella–this was in response to him bashing American women saying that he would go abroad to find some woman who would bow down to him.  That was the reason for the comment.  I know you don’t appreciate my humor…and you don’t have to respond to me either.

My mother was a shah mom—married to a wealthy man (my father)—he viewed her like a servant and even referred to her as squaw.  He verbally abused her constantly.  She had no way out. He was also a slef centered alcoholic.  He could do whatever he want, and she had to get permission to use the phone.  He is 68 now.  Many men from that generation view women as less than human and feel that it is ok to abuse them and cheat on them because that is the nature of man.  Is it the nature of man?   If my mother had a career, she could have left those deplorable conditions.  She was not fulfilled like you are.  Many women chose careers in order to protect themselves from men like that.  Women should not be put down and ridiculed if they chose to be career women.  Many men don’t like it that a woman has the power to leave him if she decides her prince turned into a toad.  I also know that there are a lot of bad women out there that are totally worthless.  Trust me, more sahm would divorce their husbands if they could……Please don’t attack my views.  And yes, I can be predictable when I want to be…..

08-28-2006 07:05 PM

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PANDORASBOX123
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PANDORASBOX123

Good luck to you then.  I hear those women leave after they get their green cards anyways….Watch A and E shows.

08-28-2006 07:08 PM

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crella
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crella
‘Crella–this was in response to him bashing American women saying that he would go abroad to find some woman who would bow down to him. That was the reason for the comment. I know you don’t appreciate my humor…and you don’t have to respond to me either.’

It’s not humour. I’ve told you that before….humour makes both parties laugh…you could go to an amuteur comedy club and try out your material,you’d fine out soon enough whether it’s funny or not.What you dont’ realize is that you are (inadvertantly?) insulting a whole region’s women with those remarks. You cannot claim high ground if your arguments are based on demeaning another group to make yourself look better (working women calling housewives ‘dolts”we’re not lazy like those bon-bon eaters’,American women callling Asian women ‘submissive dolls’,both examples of remarks I hear all the time).

‘My mother was a shah mom—married to a wealthy man (my father)—he viewed her like a servant and even referred to her as squaw. He verbally abused her constantly. She had no way out. He was also a slef centered alcoholic. He could do whatever he want, and she had to get permission to use the phone. ‘

I will tell you something that I have been trying to get across to young women for years…what you state is NOT NORMAL. Women like you who grow up in a home where the father is a tyrant (and I’m sorry to say that your father seems to be one such man) grow up thinking that that is what ‘tradional’ marriage is but it is not. Your outlook has been poisoned. It also is wrong for you to take that as your base and fight against marriage, you’re fighting something that doesn’t exist.I understand better where a lot of the female posters who claim marriage is ‘slavery’ are coming from though.

I will tell you, though, that the marriage that these men want is NOT the master/slave relationship seen in dysfunctional families but a true partnership where each has roles, each has an opinion. Mutual respect and admiration. That is ‘tradional marriage’.

08-28-2006 09:15 PM

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PANDORASBOX123
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PANDORASBOX123

Crella—fair enough—You don’t find my humor funny—You already stated that–…Others might find it funny—-Now, don’t speculate if all so not.

As far as marriage….I have been happily married for 18 years( believe it or not…lol).  My husband is nothing like my father.  We get along great and share lengthly conversations.  We are best buds.  Being in a two career house, he takes his responibilities seriously just as I do.  He cooks, cleans, takes care of the kids just as I do.  Many career men are not happy with career women because most of them don’t want to share in household duties or help with the kids.  I hear many women say this about their husbands all the time.  She works, comes home, and works again while he sits on the coach watching football or what not.  If men marry career women, then they need to realize that she needs down time too.  They shouldn’t have married a career woman if they didn’t want to share in responibilities.

I also realize all marriages are not like my parents.  Thank God.  It’s is just as  much my mother’s fault as my father’s.  It’s funny how my father always encouraged me to go to college.  He was so proud.  I think he didn’t want me to end up like my mother….

What I am trying to get across is many girls grew up in homes like that and chose to get a career just in case the one they married turned out just like dear old dad.  I support house wives too.  I fell sorry for housewives that are miserable and can’t get out due to economic reasons.

08-28-2006 10:07 PM

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crella
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crella
I’m happy to hear that, Pandora, really.

I just don’t think it wise to show a worst-case scenario as representative of a whole. I realize it happens a lot in the heat of an argument, but still it detracts from what you’re trying to say.

I still don’t think the ‘homo’ humour is above-board. If anyone said that type of thing to your husband (or son if you have one) , joke or not, I think you’d find it pretty offensive. Joke or not it’s hitting below the belt.

08-28-2006 10:54 PM

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PANDORASBOX123
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PANDORASBOX123

Crell—well, it was hitting below the belt……(Don’t read my comment to him on being a 50 year old virgin….lol)  I’ll behave from now on….Stick to the issues I will…

08-28-2006 10:59 PM

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juliandroms
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juliandroms

Maggie said:

If men should not marry intelligent and successful career women, then whom should they marry?  Gold-diggers? -Maggie from NewLadderToSuccess.com

Should they marry at all? I think the article leaves it an open question.

08-29-2006 01:12 AM

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