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The real fact about the article
TheBM
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TheBM
It has nothing to do with “Career women” and finding a non career woman is NOT going to make a difference.

More career women may account for more divorces for a simple reason. There are more women working now. Thus with all the divorces going around and that number getting higher. Naturally the percentage is going to say more of the divorces are with women who work. Because more of them do.

Listen guys. It doesn’t matter if you marry one who works or not. She will take as much as she can when she divorces you. It is better to NOT MARRY AT ALL.

Some of you are saying go marry a foriegn girl. That is such a stupid mistake. What do you think is going to happen when she comes here and meets other women? SHe is going to know SHE HAS ALL THE POWER IN THE MARRAIGE.
SHe will know she can take your house and your money. She will learn that one quick cry to the police about you abusing her and hitting her will save her from going back to her country and will still get her citizenship. Do NOT LOWER YOUR GUARD. A woman is a woman is a woman and they can NOT BE TRUSTED THEY WILL STAB YOU IN THE BACK WITHOUT MERCY AND WILL NOT EVEN GIVE IT A SECOND THOUGHT.

The real solution is TO NOT TO GET MARRIED.

08-27-2006 06:43 PM

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Marta2003
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Marta2003

See guys, this is the end result of the road you’re traveling down (and it’s the flip side of radical feminism, ironically enough):  it leads to loneliness, absolute isolation from the opposite sex, and the illness that will inevitably result.

08-27-2006 06:48 PM

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IWentThere
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IWentThere

Wow.  Bitter much?

Were you just recently dumped?  I’m sorry you are so hurt and angry, but taking out your hostilities on one group of people makes you no better than a Nazi or a skinhead.

Before you blame your problems on other people, maybe you should re-evaluate your own faults.

08-27-2006 06:48 PM

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Freeyourself
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Freeyourself

TheBM wrote:
It has nothing to do with “Career women” and finding a non career woman is NOT going to make a difference.

More career women may account for more divorces for a simple reason. There are more women working now. Thus with all the divorces going around and that number getting higher. Naturally the percentage is going to say more of the divorces are with women who work. Because more of them do.

Listen guys. It doesn’t matter if you marry one who works or not. She will take as much as she can when she divorces you. It is better to NOT MARRY AT ALL.

Some of you are saying go marry a foriegn girl. That is such a stupid mistake. What do you think is going to happen when she comes here and meets other women? SHe is going to know SHE HAS ALL THE POWER IN THE MARRAIGE.
SHe will know she can take your house and your money. She will learn that one quick cry to the police about you abusing her and hitting her will save her from going back to her country and will still get her citizenship. Do NOT LOWER YOUR GUARD. A woman is a woman is a woman and they can NOT BE TRUSTED THEY WILL STAB YOU IN THE BACK WITHOUT MERCY AND WILL NOT EVEN GIVE IT A SECOND THOUGHT.

The real solution is TO NOT TO GET MARRIED.

The only marriage option is to expatriate. If you save and invest wisely you can leave for another country that is not women centered. America is a marriage hell for men, unbelievable how many fall for the trap. Funny my friend got married again said his fiance was great, all the sex he wanted. Guess what happened after marriage? Sex dried up, she gave it away then threatened to leave if he didn’t show the gold and diamond. Another sucker trapped for a second time.

Message Edited by Freeyourself on 08-27-2006 06:51 PM

08-27-2006 06:49 PM

Re: The real fact about the article
Marta2003
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Marta2003

Freeyourself wrote:
The only marriage option is to expatriate.
Does this mean that all of you guys will be leaving?

But who will that leave for me to have fights with on the internets?

08-27-2006 06:52 PM

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Romulus
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Romulus
“Funny my friend got married again said his fiance was great, all the sex he wanted. Guess what happened after marriage? Sex dried up, she gave it away then threatened to leave if he didn’t show the gold and diamond. Another sucker trapped for a second time.”

One of the best pieces of advice I have ever recevied was from a married friend of mine: “All women change after marriage.” When you truly think about it, it makes absolute sense.

08-27-2006 06:55 PM

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Hedgie
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Dude, the solution when dealing with career women is to use them for sex and that’s it. You’d be surprised at the number of older, attractive, divorced (or married), female professionals (“cougars”) I meet who generally only want one thing. It’s great. We both get what we need, and then move on the next one.

I will add, however, that being women they often find it hard to move on. They generally get clingy. But you have to be resolute with them and keep them at arms length. The key is not to get too close.

If you want affection, get a dog.

08-27-2006 06:57 PM

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Freeyourself
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Freeyourself

Marta2003 wrote:

Freeyourself wrote:
The only marriage option is to expatriate.

Does this mean that all of you guys will be leaving?

But who will that leave for me to have fights with on the internets?

I don’t know but maybe you should worry more about who will pay the taxes and do the dirty jobs hahaha. I guess the Mexicans can do it but don’t worry only a minority of men are looking for a new life. I see the writing on the wall the Government can’t pay off the promised social programs for future retirees, their accounting is as bad as Enron’s was.

08-27-2006 06:57 PM

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ftesyektsi
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ftesyektsi

Romulus wrote:
“Funny my friend got married again said his fiance was great, all the sex he wanted. Guess what happened after marriage? Sex dried up, she gave it away then threatened to leave if he didn’t show the gold and diamond. Another sucker trapped for a second time.”

One of the best pieces of advice I have ever recevied was from a married friend of mine: “All women change after marriage.” When you truly think about it, it makes absolute sense.

Yep.  Never hear of men changing.  Nope. They don’t start going to the bathroom with the door open so they can watch the football game, don’t start getting fat, don’t start picking their noses, don’t get generally complacent and boring.

Nope.  Never heard of that.

(But, guess what?  As an intelligent and experienced woman, I’m at least smart enough to know that not ALL men do that.  As with any other group of people, you have your goods and your bads.  If you’re not finding good women, it’s probably just because you have horrible taste.  Maybe you should work on that.)

08-27-2006 06:58 PM

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moneyneversleep
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moneyneversleep

The initial poster is correct.  Marriage is losing proposition and a bad investment.  With 1st marriages divorcing at 50% and 2nd ones @ 70%, primarily initiated by women, you can be assured that it is not worth it.  There are no benefits to a man getting married.  Enjoy your life, travel, enjoy different women rather than just 1.  When they become too clingly move on. It is simple and very economically viable.

08-27-2006 07:03 PM

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Marta2003
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Marta2003

moneyneversleep wrote:
It is simple and very economically viable.
And not satisfying to most men, just like radical feminism is not satisfying to most women.

Message Edited by Marta2003 on 08-27-2006 07:10 PM

08-27-2006 07:06 PM

Re: The real fact about the article
Hedgie
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Hedgie

“And not satisfying to most men…”

You really think so? Sounds like wishful thinking. Try us.

08-27-2006 07:10 PM

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Marta2003
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Marta2003

Hedgie wrote:
You really think so? Sounds like wishful thinking. Try us.
Dude, the problem is that you don’t represent most men.  I could go through a few threads here and find plenty of men ranting about how American women have destroyed everything that makes men happy and which makes life here redeemable.  That sounds to me like men bitching about something lost.  People don’t complain about lost things unless they’re valuable.

08-27-2006 07:12 PM

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Hedgie
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Hedgie

What can I say? They are a minority. They need to snap out of it and come to their senses. They are learning. Reading the original Forbes.com article by Michael Noer was a step in the right direction.

Come to think of it, I suspect that’s why hysterical career women threw a fit at Forbes and were desperate to get the article banned. Can’t let men know the truth about career women, can we ladies?

The truth is a dangerous thing.

08-27-2006 07:18 PM

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Romulus
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Romulus
“Yep. Never hear of men changing. Nope. They don’t start going to the bathroom with the door open so they can watch the football game, don’t start getting fat, don’t start picking their noses, don’t get generally complacent and boring.

Nope. Never heard of that.”

That comment wasn’t directed at you or any woman for that matter. It was to the men out there and they know EXACTLY what I’m talking about.

Message Edited by Romulus on 08-27-2006 07:20 PM

08-27-2006 07:20 PM

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ftesyektsi
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ftesyektsi

Hedgie wrote:
What can I say? They are a minority. They need to snap out of it and come to their senses. They are learning. Reading the original Forbes.com article by Michael Noer was a step in the right direction.

Come to think of it, I suspect that’s why hysterical career women threw a fit at Forbes and were desperate to get the article banned. Can’t let men know the truth about career women, can we ladies?

The truth is a dangerous thing.

The most dangerous thing about career women is that they’re not hog-tied to the kitchen with no means of escape. Sucks.

08-27-2006 07:24 PM

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Marta2003
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Marta2003

Hedgie wrote:
Come to think of it, I suspect that’s why hysterical career women threw a fit at Forbes and were desperate to get the article banned.
That’s a plausible explanation, but so is that career women simply object to being unfairly characterized as unsuitable for marriage and family.  None of Mr. Noer’s statistics prove that career women are the cause for marriages failing.  Even he admits that, explicitly.  And yet that is what many men take away as the message of the article, yourself included.  That’s why this article is lame and unjust.

08-27-2006 07:27 PM

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Hedgie
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Hedgie

There’s nothing dangerous or threatening about career women. As I keep saying, they’re good for fun and games, so they do possess some entertainment value.

I do feel a little sorry for them, I admit, because deep down they strike me as hurt little girls who are still playing dress up.

08-27-2006 07:28 PM

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Marta2003
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Marta2003

Hedgie wrote:
I do feel a little sorry for them, I admit, because deep down they strike me as hurt little girls who are still playing dress up.
I’m an R.N.  I work 40+ hours (often 60) a week helping sick people.  And I’m a “hurt little girl” who is “still playing dress up?”

Puh-leez.  Get a life.

08-27-2006 07:29 PM

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Freeyourself
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Freeyourself
“Dude, the problem is that you don’t represent most men. I could go through a few threads here and find plenty of men ranting about how American women have destroyed everything that makes men happy and which makes life here redeemable. That sounds to me like men bitching about something lost. People don’t complain about lost things unless they’re valuable.”

I don’t necessarily blame American women. I blame the society that gives American women the ability to destroy family lives with laws that favor women. You’ll find most men willing to have a family if laws were nuetral but they aren’t. this is why men are starting to rebel and more are everyday. Do you have children? Do you worry what society is becoming? If you have a son you will understand how he is treated compared to girls in school. Why are boys being drugged on Ritalin? You’re a nurse do you think boys today have become monsters or is it the school system that requires them to be quiet and listen to lectures all day like girls do? Do you think maybe if boys were given an opportunity to work off their extra energy they would be more easy to handle? The problem has become that men must suddenly conform to a Feminists ideal of life. This will not work well against male dominated societies that will overtake us in a competitive world. This is also your problem since many women will silently complain that males are not getting a fair shake but they like the status quo since it does offer them benefits.

08-27-2006 07:31 PM

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ftesyektsi
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Hedgie wrote:
There’s nothing dangerous or threatening about career women. As I keep saying, they’re good for fun and games, so they do possess some entertainment value.

I do feel a little sorry for them, I admit, because deep down they strike me as hurt little girls who are still playing dress up.

Who emasculated you?  You poor, poor boy…

08-27-2006 07:32 PM

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Hedgie
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Hedgie

“I’m an R.N.  I work 40+ hours (often 60) a week helping sick people.  And I’m a “hurt little girl” who is “still playing dress up?”‘

So, I take it you wear a nurse’s uniform…?

08-27-2006 07:33 PM

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ftesyektsi
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ftesyektsi

Hedgie wrote:
“I’m an R.N.  I work 40+ hours (often 60) a week helping sick people.  And I’m a “hurt little girl” who is “still playing dress up?”‘

So, I take it you wear a nurse’s uniform…?

que?

I’m confused.  You must not be responding to me.  Bowing out.

08-27-2006 07:39 PM

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IWentThere
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IWentThere

Do you worry what society is becoming? If you have a son you will understand how he is treated compared to girls in school. Why are boys being drugged on Ritalin? You’re a nurse do you think boys today have become monsters or is it the school system that requires them to be quiet and listen to lectures all day like girls do? Do you think maybe if boys were given an opportunity to work off their extra energy they would be more easy to handle?

Wrong.

In the civilised learning environment, long before the advent of feminism, boys were expected to remain quiet during lectures.  It has always been this way in the typical academic setting.

The real culprit behind Ritalin and the like is the lack of discipline.  Children are no longer allowed to be disciplined by the schools, or even their parents.  My father told me that when he was a boy, if he didn’t shut up and listen to his lectures, he would have gotten “the strap”.  He says this put the fear of God into him and his schoolmates.

All I know is if I have children, I will be putting the fear of God into them as well – with old fashioned discipline.  Laws be damned.

08-27-2006 07:39 PM

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Marta2003
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Marta2003

Freeyourself wrote:
You’ll find most men willing to have a family if laws were nuetral but they aren’t. this is why men are starting to rebel and more are everyday.
Unfair divorce and family law is one thing.  I’m a feminist and I agree wholeheartedly that there is something **bleep**ed up about divorce and alimony law in many states.  That’s a whole separate issue from anything else, including whether women who want to work can make a good wife.  There is nothing about wanting to engage in paid work that is mutally exclusive with wanting to be a good spouse or a good parent.  If that were true, Mr. Noer would have been writing an article to everyone else warning them to stay away from career people.

Do you have children? Do you worry what society is becoming? If you have a son you will understand how he is treated compared to girls in school. Why are boys being drugged on Ritalin?
Ritalin is overprescribed, across the board.  However, it is of note that this takes the cooperation of the parents, fathers included.

You’re a nurse do you think boys today have become monsters or is it the school system that requires them to be quiet and listen to lectures all day like girls do?
This has been the way that classes were taught forever, long before feminism existed or the first girl took the first step into the classroom.  Anyone who imagines anything else is kidding themselves.

Do you think maybe if boys were given an opportunity to work off their extra energy they would be more easy to handle?
The problem isn’t the pedagogy that’s been in place forever, but the fact that most kids don’t get out and play.  Blame X-boxes and video-games, not the educational system.

08-27-2006 07:40 PM

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ftesyektsi
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ftesyektsi

IWentThere wrote:

The real culprit behind Ritalin and the like is the lack of discipline.

I don’t have kids, but everything I’ve witnessed over the years has made this sound very true.  What DID happen to discipline?

08-27-2006 07:41 PM

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Hedgie
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Hedgie

Marta claims she works as a nurse. I was simply asking about her nurse’s uniform.

08-27-2006 07:43 PM

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Marta2003
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Marta2003

Hedgie wrote:
So, I take it you wear a nurse’s uniform…?
Yeah, it’s called “scrubs,” and is worn by nurses, physicians, patient care technicians and surgeons alike.

08-27-2006 07:46 PM

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Freeyourself
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Freeyourself

IWentThere wrote:
Do you worry what society is becoming? If you have a son you will understand how he is treated compared to girls in school. Why are boys being drugged on Ritalin? You’re a nurse do you think boys today have become monsters or is it the school system that requires them to be quiet and listen to lectures all day like girls do? Do you think maybe if boys were given an opportunity to work off their extra energy they would be more easy to handle?

Wrong.

In the civilised learning environment, long before the advent of feminism, boys were expected to remain quiet during lectures.  It has always been this way in the typical academic setting.

The real culprit behind Ritalin and the like is the lack of discipline.  Children are no longer allowed to be disciplined by the schools, or even their parents.  My father told me that when he was a boy, if he didn’t shut up and listen to his lectures, he would have gotten “the strap”.  He says this put the fear of God into him and his schoolmates.

All I know is if I have children, I will be putting the fear of God into them as well – with old fashioned discipline.  Laws be damned.

One reason discipline is down because half of sons no longer have their fathers. Remember 50% divorce in America. Boys were expected to remain quiet in school but I can tell you from experience school was different than today. When I grew up we play played hard sports hitting each other at football or throwing balls at each other dodgeball style. This released our extra energy, today many schools are not allowing contact during recess. Also I had more male teachers who allowed certain things to pass in class since he understood boys can’t keep concentrated at all times.

08-27-2006 07:57 PM

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TheBM
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“Were you just recently dumped?”

ANd here we go men.

Because that is the only thing a woman can do women can do no wrong can they? They can’t show completly lack of morals, Honor and not think twice about stabbing men in the back can they? Only men are evil bastards.

I know that is how women think. No man can be allowed to have a real reason to hold women in contempt. They don’t bother finding out any real reason for it they will just point laugh and say “Oh he must have just been dumpped”

Women enjoy it when men are trampled on. When everything a man has worked for is taken from him. When he is a beaten and humilitated soul. They laugh about and take it all in joy. Do not be fooled by that article trying to slam all career women as the only ones who will divorce you. They ALL will. They will do anything to see you at your worst. Then, They will point and laugh and say it had to be your fault for they can never see the fault of other women. Why? Because they do not see it as a problem when a woman does anything under the sun to a man.

Wifes get away with murdering their husbands and women gather and support them. If a man dare complains of the ills a woman has brought him they pass it all off as a joke.

DO not get married at all. To none of them. Career or not.

08-27-2006 08:14 PM

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IWentThere
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You’re a very angry, bitter person, TheBM.

I fell really bad for you, you must be going through a very tough spot in your life to be so vehemently angry.  I feel very bad for you – but don’t worry, things always have a way of looking up when you least expect it.

*hugs*

08-27-2006 08:19 PM

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leeraconteur
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leeraconteur

Do you worry what society is becoming? If you have a son you will understand how he is treated compared to girls in school. Why are boys being drugged on Ritalin? You’re a nurse do you think boys today have become monsters or is it the school system that requires them to be quiet and listen to lectures all day like girls do? Do you think maybe if boys were given an opportunity to work off their extra energy they would be more easy to handle?

Wrong.

In the civilised learning environment, long before the advent of feminism, boys were expected to remain quiet during lectures.  It has always been this way in the typical academic setting.

The real culprit behind Ritalin and the like is the lack of discipline.  Children are no longer allowed to be disciplined by the schools, or even their parents.  My father told me that when he was a boy, if he didn’t shut up and listen to his lectures, he would have gotten “the strap”.  He says this put the fear of God into him and his schoolmates.

All I know is if I have children, I will be putting the fear of God into them as well – with old fashioned discipline.  Laws be damned.

Good luck with that.  In the U.S., children can report their parents to CPS for hitting them, and don’t even think of disciplining your child in public.  That will get you in deep trouble when some busy body sticks their nose in your business.

Fact is that some school districts are cutting out recess that allowed boys to burn off excess energy.  Games like tag are being outlawed because feminised teachers think them too likely to lead to ‘agression’ and hair pulling.  Dodge ball is going away because it is too violent.

Pathetic.

The school environment is being feminised.

08-27-2006 10:26 PM

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SM777
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SM777
“Does this mean that all of you guys will be leaving?

But who will that leave for me to have fights with on the internets?”
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Marta2003, you can fight with your future wife.

08-27-2006 10:51 PM

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SM777
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“”Were you just recently dumped?”

ANd here we go men.

Because that is the only thing a woman can do women can do no wrong can they? They can’t show completly lack of morals, Honor and not think twice about stabbing men in the back can they? Only men are evil bastards.”
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Yep, that’s right BM, they lack honor, common sense, decency and respect. That goes double for the career chicks.

As far as marriage is concerned, they are not worth the risk, the time nor the trouble.

Go foreign.

08-27-2006 10:59 PM

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ftesyektsi
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ftesyektsi

TheBM wrote:
“Were you just recently dumped?”

ANd here we go men.

Because that is the only thing a woman can do women can do no wrong can they? They can’t show completly lack of morals, Honor and not think twice about stabbing men in the back can they? Only men are evil bastards.

I know that is how women think. No man can be allowed to have a real reason to hold women in contempt. They don’t bother finding out any real reason for it they will just point laugh and say “Oh he must have just been dumpped”

Women enjoy it when men are trampled on. When everything a man has worked for is taken from him. When he is a beaten and humilitated soul. They laugh about and take it all in joy. Do not be fooled by that article trying to slam all career women as the only ones who will divorce you. They ALL will. They will do anything to see you at your worst. Then, They will point and laugh and say it had to be your fault for they can never see the fault of other women. Why? Because they do not see it as a problem when a woman does anything under the sun to a man.

Wifes get away with murdering their husbands and women gather and support them. If a man dare complains of the ills a woman has brought him they pass it all off as a joke.

DO not get married at all. To none of them. Career or not.

Wow.

You’ll feel better in a year.

Until then, remember:  in life, there are no absolutes.  It’s never ALL (as in, “All men are dogs.”  that’s just silly).  For instance, only SOME men are shallow bastages who see nothing beyond a set of breasts. The rest are just dandy.  And SOME women are beatches.  But not all of them.  As I said, though, when you get over whatever it is that’s got you twisted up, you’ll realize how silly what you wrote sounds.  Take care and good luck.

08-27-2006 11:25 PM

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ftesyektsi
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ftesyektsi

SM777 wrote:
“”Were you just recently dumped?”

ANd here we go men.

Because that is the only thing a woman can do women can do no wrong can they? They can’t show completly lack of morals, Honor and not think twice about stabbing men in the back can they? Only men are evil bastards.”
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Yep, that’s right BM, they lack honor, common sense, decency and respect. That goes double for the career chicks.

As far as marriage is concerned, they are not worth the risk, the time nor the trouble.

Go foreign.

Is this forum the safe haven for trampled men, or something?  Crikey.

08-27-2006 11:26 PM

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SM777
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SM777
“Is this forum the safe haven for trampled men, or something? Crikey.”
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Is this forum the safe haven for single old spinsters or something? Crikey.

08-28-2006 01:24 AM

Re: The real fact about the article
ftesyektsi
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ftesyektsi

SM777 wrote:
“Is this forum the safe haven for trampled men, or something? Crikey.”
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Is this forum the safe haven for single old spinsters or something? Crikey.

I’m seeing quite a few more wounded, angry, bitter men than anything else.

And “single, old spinsters”?  Dear, sweet, man – older women who stay single are no longer called “spinsters.”  You see, they have jobs and social lives now, and probably very much enjoy their bachelorettehood.  Spinster is an antiquated notion some men hold onto because they need to believe that a woman who stays single doesn’t do it by choice, but that she’s out there somewhere pining away for a man to save her.

Hate to tell you this, but only some women still think that way.  And not the majority.

08-28-2006 11:34 AM

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