American men are outsourcing marriage


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American men are outsourcing marriage
OutsourceWomen
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OutsourceWomen
You’ve heard of outsourcing in computer software, textiles, and manufacturing. Now it’s coming to marriage.

You’ve heard of how Americans began buying imported cars upon realizing that American cars had dropped in quality. Now it’s happening to marriage.

American women are selfish, spoiled, demanding and unhappy, and fewer and fewer men are willing to be stuck with them. The marriage rate is literally dropping every year. The number of American men marrying foreign women is increasing every year.

Foreign women love to marry American men, because we treat them well and offer them a good standard of living. American men love to marry foreign women, because they are not depressed and strung out on Zoloft and anti-depressants, they have not been with 50 guys by the time they get married, they do not get angry and indignant at the idea of womanly tasks such as cooking, cleaning, and nurturing. And they do not put their career above their family. They actually want to be wives, not corporate drones.

Now flip the script: Do you think any foreign men would be willing to marry American women?? Not a chance.

08-29-2006 04:39 PM

Re: American men are outsourcing marriage
momjeans
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momjeans
I have to wonder if I would want to get married to a guy that has had 50 sex partners. OMG HE IS TEH SPOILED GOODS!

If a guy has to go overseas to find a woman he can exploit and treat like a lesser human being, than the MAN is ultimately going to be the one to suffer. Men are harmed by our deeply-ingrained notions of what makes a happy marriage just as much as women are. Having a partnership with someone who is your equal is a lot more satisfying than finding a domestic mommy-servant to do your bidding and meekly agree with your authority.

08-29-2006 04:44 PM

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Hedgie
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Hedgie

I wonder if we can arrange a population exchange?

For starters I suggest we send a few million or so American career women, 20-40, to more traditional countries ASAP.

Not only would it get these harridans out of our hair, but it might make them see how good they have it in the US.

08-29-2006 04:54 PM

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Doc_Savage
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OutsourceWomen wrote:
Now flip the script: Do you think any foreign men would be willing to marry American women?? Not a chance.

Actually I think you have this dead wrong. Lots of foreign men (at least the poor ones) would love to marry an American woman and get a green card and have the chance to live the American dream ™.

It’s the American women who dont want them (in general of course, there are always exceptions).

Why?

Because your average woman (remember, I’m just generalizing here) wants a husband who earns at least as much if not more than her otherwise she will lose respect for him.

Why else would American women be lobbying for laws trying to prevent American men getting foreign brides?

Message Edited by Doc_Savage on 08-29-2006 04:59 PM

08-29-2006 04:56 PM

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Back2TheKitchen
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Back2TheKitchen

momjeans wrote:
If a guy has to go overseas to find a woman he can exploit and treat like a lesser human being, than the MAN is ultimately going to be the one to suffer. Men are harmed by our deeply-ingrained notions of what makes a happy marriage just as much as women are. Having a partnership with someone who is your equal is a lot more satisfying than finding a domestic mommy-servant to do your bidding and meekly agree with your authority.

Why do you think a foreign women would be exploited and treated like a lesser human being?

And why do you use shaming language calling her a “domestic mommy-servant”?

Sounds to me like you’re a typical bitter American Woman that brings absolutely nothing to the table in a relationship (other than complaints ).

It’s obviously American Women are inferior to Foreign Women.

“With women or the female mindset imparted through feminization on the vast majority of society, it will be very easy to control the Empire…I mean…the republic.” – mirrorofthesoul.blogspot.com

08-29-2006 05:00 PM

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momjeans
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momjeans
Foreign women love to marry American men, because we treat them well and offer them a good standard of living. American men love to marry foreign women, because they are not depressed and strung out on Zoloft and anti-depressants, they have not been with 50 guys by the time they get married, they do not get angry and indignant at the idea of womanly tasks such as cooking, cleaning, and nurturing. And they do not put their career above their family. They actually want to be wives, not corporate drones.

^When you wrote that stuff about a man wanting a woman that does not get indignant at the idea of a woman doing housework? Basically that reduces her to a mommy-servant if that point is even being debated in terms of marriage. There is absolutely no good or justifiable reason to say that cleaning up a house is a woman’s job. It is easy work and to say a man is incapable of helping out is quite insulting to him. What pick up a broom? That is soooo difficult. I’m sorry but if I were a man I would be quite offended at the idea that I am incapable of accomplishing household tasks and that I needed someone else to take it over for me.

And yes, if this is what marriage is reduced to, a woman waiting on a man, then it is hugely insulting. TO MEN!

08-29-2006 05:11 PM

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Hedgie
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Hedgie

“Lots of foreign men (at least the poor ones) would love to marry an American woman and get a green card and have the chance to live the American dream ™.”

Excellent point. I know plenty of wealthy clients in Europe and Latin America who want nothing to do with American women. They’ve heard the stories and know them to be true. Plus, American girls simply aren’t as feminine as their foreign counterparts.

Of course, American career women who can’t find an American guy can always set up house with some dimwitted Third World tribesman, say, a Maasai or a Hmong, who only wants to marry her because it means he gets tv and running hot water.

But then again, that would put the lie to the feminist devotion to “gender equality.”

08-29-2006 05:11 PM

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toadman
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toadman

Actually many of us simply expatriate and live like kings, with no intention of returning other than vacation. Bringing them here poisons the well. Weeds out the green-card diggers too.

08-29-2006 05:23 PM

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Celticgirl
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Speaking as a Brit, I’d rather have a Rolls Royce than a Toyota. Outsourcing usually means exploitation and near slavery – not a bad metaphor for mail order brides.
If you have been reading the international press recently there is a cautionary twist to these tales – in the past month alone one elderly brit was burnt to death by his African wife, another young Brit literally chopped up and ‘barbequed’ by his Thai bride. The truth is these women have been brought up in so much poverty that they will literally do anything for money.

08-29-2006 05:40 PM

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shovel
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shovel
Now flip the script: Do you think any foreign men would be willing to marry American women?? Not a chance.

I’ve been happily married to one for quite a while now.

And Hedgie, my last two foreign hedge fund clients are dating American women.

Who cares where in the world you want to marry? You can make the same green card generalizations about foreign women AND men.

08-29-2006 05:50 PM

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Hedgie
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No, you can’t, I’m afraid.

Difference is, career women aren’t outsourcing men.

Which is why they’re desperately angry that the truth about career women, so eloquently rendered in Michael Noer’s article, is getting out to men.

08-29-2006 05:55 PM

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shovel
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shovel
If you have been reading the international press recently there is a cautionary twist to these tales – in the past month alone one elderly brit was burnt to death by his African wife, another young Brit literally chopped up and ‘barbequed’ by his Thai bride. The truth is these women have been brought up in so much poverty that they will literally do anything for money.

I saw a profile on one of the Discovery Channel’s crime shows dealing with the murder of a mail order Russian girl. It was heartbreaking, because her parents thought they were doing the right thing in encouraging her to sign up for the program (I think CSI Miami also had an episode dealing with this theme). Basically she came over here to achieve the American dream, and her psycho, overweight husband started abusing her. She ended up just making friends and spending more time with them, and he flew into a rage…I know obvoiusly not all of these end in murder, but the “what did I get myself into?” scenario is not all that uncommon.

08-29-2006 05:55 PM

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shovel
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shovel
Difference is, career women aren’t outsourcing men.

Which is why they’re desperately angry that the truth about career women, so eloquently rendered in Michael Noer’s article, is getting out to men.

Actually, I’m going to step out on a limb and say that anyone who makes sweeping generalizations about a group of people has a few personality flaws they need to come to terms with. Hence anyone who “outsources” their love lives wouldn’t hold any appeal to most women anyway.

I know, it’s terrible my forign husband loves a career woman and that we have a happy marriage.

08-29-2006 05:59 PM

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Hedgie
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Hedgie

Don’t flatter yourself. Actually, none of us could care less about your marriage, however many times you bring it up.

08-29-2006 06:06 PM

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Hiiiii
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Hiiiii

“another young Brit literally chopped up and ‘barbequed’ by his Thai bride. ”

I read that story… he married a bar girl (thai hooker).  Thats like marrying a hooker in the usa… its just stupid. You wouldnt marry a hooker you met in the drug dealing crime filled part of town in the USA, dont do it in thailand.  Most sites for guys looking for foreign girls will warn guys to look out for warning signs like that.

08-29-2006 06:07 PM

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shovel
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shovel
Don’t flatter yourself. Actually, none of us could care less about your marriage, however many times you bring it up.

Of course you wouldn’t care, because it contradicts your beliefs.

If I related a story that proved your point, you’d be very interested in my love life.

08-29-2006 06:26 PM

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Hedgie
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Hedgie

No, honestly Shovel, I couldn’t care less about your love life. Really.

Now, your sex life, that’s another story…

08-29-2006 06:38 PM

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Celticgirl
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Hey Hedgie – are you a bit naive? Of course women can ‘outsource’ marriage – there are loads of guys out there in developing countries who are desperate for a EU passport and a new life. The difference is, most women would not entertain such clinical notions of ‘outsourcing husbands’ when it comes to choosing a partner. And most of these men – and the societies they rule – are generally the ones that the women who are on the other side of your ‘outsourcing’ argument are desperate to get away from. Why import macho chauvinists when we have enough of them already (cf 75 % of the male posters on here)

08-29-2006 06:49 PM

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Hedgie
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Hedgie

I never said they can’t. I said they aren’t. And they won’t.

There’s a difference.

08-29-2006 06:56 PM

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shovel
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shovel
No, honestly Shovel, I couldn’t care less about your love life. Really.

Now, your sex life, that’s another story…

I’ll share one tale, which is somewhat apropos to the thread…I had a brief fling with a Danish guy who raved, “you don’t just sit there and take it like Danish girls do!” (you’ll just have to leave the rest to your imagination)

You know what I did? I thanked him for the compliment, then admonished him for making a sweeping generalization. “AS IF you’ve slept with every single Danish girl..!”

08-29-2006 06:57 PM

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Hedgie
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Hedgie

You go girl! Way to go. That unthinking **bleep**…

You’ve definitely piqued my curiosity over here though.

08-29-2006 07:02 PM

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Back2TheKitchen
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Back2TheKitchen

Celticgirl wrote:
Speaking as a Brit, I’d rather have a Rolls Royce than a Toyota. Outsourcing usually means exploitation and near slavery – not a bad metaphor for mail order brides.
If you have been reading the international press recently there is a cautionary twist to these tales – in the past month alone one elderly brit was burnt to death by his African wife, another young Brit literally chopped up and ‘barbequed’ by his Thai bride. The truth is these women have been brought up in so much poverty that they will literally do anything for money.

As a brit girl, it doesn’t surprise me that you’re trying to use the same old shaming language to speak out against Foreign Women.

Brits, Aussies, Kiwiskanks (NZ), Mapleskanks (Canada), Ameriskanks, … Western Women.

You’re all being outsourced thanks to the Feminist Lie.

“With women or the female mindset imparted through feminization on the vast majority of society, it will be very easy to control the Empire…I mean…the republic.” – mirrorofthesoul.blogspot.com

08-29-2006 11:00 PM

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doingitmyway
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doingitmyway

shovel wrote:
then admonished him for making a sweeping generalization. “AS IF you’ve slept with every single Danish girl..!”

He doesn’t need to sleep with every Danish women to come to that conclusion. Ever heard of the central limit theorem??

08-29-2006 11:19 PM

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Celticgirl
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Have to admit I did think twice before wasting my time to a ‘man’ who refers to women as ‘skanks’ but wanted to point out my so-called ‘shaming remarks’ are the truth. I guess you’re too ignorant to realise it.

What a lot of sad, bitter men there are out there. And yes, please – do go abroad and find ‘suitable’ wives there. You’re doing all us educated women a favour by taking yourself out of the gene pool. Or should that be ‘pond’ in the cases of you and your ilk.

08-30-2006 06:20 AM

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Hedgie
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Hedgie

Actually, it’s career women and feminists such as yourself who are removing yourselves the gene pool.

People like you aren’t reproducing. The left-wing portion of the population, the Blue Staters if you will, are dying out. It’s all about the demographics.

Native populations in Europe and North America are in decline. They are being replaced by Muslims and Latin Americans, who have large families and more traditional attitudes vis-a-vis women and family.

So, those Western men who find a foreign wife and have children are the winners.

08-30-2006 09:44 AM

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Celticgirl
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Winners? In what sense? I don’t think so caveman.

08-30-2006 09:50 AM

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Pete
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Pete

Celticgirl wrote:
Winners? In what sense? I don’t think so caveman.

Back that up. Explain why men are not winners if they find a foreign woman overseas, marry them, and have kids.

08-30-2006 10:58 PM

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