It does not matter housewife or career woman!! Where is the commitment?


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It does not matter housewife or career woman!! Where is the commitment?
ang
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ang

I think it is great that Mr. Noer tackled such a controversial issue, but there is more to it than meets the eye. I agree with his premise that a career woman would be more inclined to leave her husband because of her financial independence, but in the end it all boils down to why would a married woman have a selfish ambition, aside from her family in the first place!?

http://www.heavenministries.com/articles/careerwomenmorepronetodivorce.htm

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08-29-2006 11:39 AM

Re: It does not matter housewife or career woman!! Where is the commitment?
phatkat811
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phatkat811
According to this person, a woman in the workforce = godlessness. Hooo boy.

Thanks for reminding me of part of the reason I’m not religious.

08-29-2006 11:55 AM

Re: It does not matter housewife or career woman!! Where is the commitment?
porkchops38
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porkchops38

ang wrote:

I think it is great that Mr. Noer tackled such a controversial issue, but there is more to it than meets the eye. I agree with his premise that a career woman would be more inclined to leave her husband because of her financial independence, but in the end it all boils down to why would a married woman have a selfish ambition, aside from her family in the first place!?

http://www.heavenministries.com/articles/careerwomenmorepronetodivorce.htm

Ang, you’re missing the whole point, which is that unless and until the current legal system in America changes drastically, the typical marriage of the typical American man to the typical American woman is nothing but a game of russian roulette for the typical American man — 50% divorce rate and 70% of divorces initiated by the wife, are the proof.

As for religious women in America today, namely Christian women, they are actually worse as some studies have indicated that Christians have a 60% divorce rate today. That would make sense, since feminism was started in the churches in America in the early 1800’s by a feminist pastor named Charles Finney, and what Finney had started spread like a disease throughout the American churches. It’s one thing to have the anti-male family/divorce court help a wife destroy her family and marriage, but then to add insult to injury we got many churches today that pile-on and kick the man when he is down and do so by what they think to be the sanction of “God Almighty”. No thanks cupcake.

08-29-2006 11:55 AM

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MartianBachelor
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MartianBachelor
Yes, I believe Oklahoma has the highest divorce rate, and it’s pretty much solid bible-belt country. Somewhere there’s a study showing there’s no correlation between the number of relious people (measured by the number who attend church weekly or more) and the divorce rate, just like there’s no correlation between Catholicism and birth rates (even though Catholics aren’t supposed to use contraceptives).

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08-29-2006 12:08 PM

Re: It does not matter housewife or career woman!! Where is the commitment?
ang
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ang

You may be missing the point, Porkschops. Who said anything about “christian” or “religion” or going to Church. All of these things are for show. I’m talking from the heart of a person.

I’m talking about God. Where is the morals? where is the committment? That is the point!

I see that you are brainwashed into believing that a woman with morals is a religious nut or goes to church.  If the a Church doesn’t have Jesus Christ as its head, everyone is mislead just like you. Name two churches in america that have Christ as the head?

My point is, we live in a godless society. It doesn’t matter career woman or not! You are absolutely correct christan’s women are just as likely to divorce as the career woman. So are housewife’s. It is becasue we live in a Godless society. The churches do not teach the sanctity of marriage like they are supposed to. Jesus Christ is not the head of the churches in ameirca, the pastors are.

we live in a godless society! that is my point and is the point.

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08-29-2006 01:12 PM

Re: It does not matter housewife or career woman!! Where is the commitment?
ang
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ang

Hey phatkat, I never said a career woman was Godless. Where are you reading that from? Now I can see how come no two people interpret God’s word the same way. Read my article again!

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08-29-2006 01:19 PM

Re: It does not matter housewife or career woman!! Where is the commitment?
phatkat811
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phatkat811
Direct quote from the article, emphasis mine, NOT taken out of context as the article is kinda preachy and disjointed anyway:

“Come on folks, you know that America promotes godlessness, such as adultery, divorce, and promotion of women in the workforce”

08-29-2006 02:10 PM

Re: It does not matter housewife or career woman!! Where is the commitment?
porkchops38
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porkchops38

ang wrote:
You may be missing the point, Porkschops. Who said anything about “christian” or “religion” or going to Church. All of these things are for show. I’m talking from the heart of a person.

I’m talking about God. Where is the morals? where is the committment? That is the point!

I see that you are brainwashed into believing that a woman with morals is a religious nut or goes to church.  If the a Church doesn’t have Jesus Christ as its head, everyone is mislead just like you. Name two churches in america that have Christ as the head?

My point is, we live in a godless society. It doesn’t matter career woman or not! You are absolutely correct christan’s women are just as likely to divorce as the career woman. So are housewife’s. It is becasue we live in a Godless society. The churches do not teach the sanctity of marriage like they are supposed to. Jesus Christ is not the head of the churches in ameirca, the pastors are.

we live in a godless society! that is my point and is the point.

Ang, you can pontificate all you want, but the last I checked, my local family/divorce court is not run by God or Jesus Christ, and I say that with utmost respect for God and Jesus Christ. Also, like I explained earlier, even if a woman were to claim to be religious and defer marital problems to Jesus Christ instead of the local courthouse, she could still change her mind and throw Jesus Christ to the curb and fly on down to the local courthouse, as it seems many “Christian” women are doing and have done nowadays. The reason is simple, it’s because Jesus Christ is a matter of faith ultimately, whereas the local courthouse is a matter of reality. So, you’d be served wisely to take your faith and mix a dose of reality with it cupcake. So, if you care to relate here, you’re going to have to relate to me a real world solution to a real world issue, because up until now your only offering a faith based presumption for a real world issue. For example, if I tell you that the FAA has certified Dingbat Airlines as the airline in America with the highest incidence of airplane crashes per passenger mile, and if I told you that the FAA is considering to pull Dingbat Airlines license to fly because of their terrible safety record — if you come along as a spokesperson for Dingbat airlines and tell me “Well, sir, yes I know Dingbat Airlines has the worst safety record in the world, but if you just have faith in Jesus Christ then everything will be okay if your board our flight sir”. I’m not buying a ticket on Dingbat Airlines no matter how much faith in Jesus Christ anyone has got! It ceases to be a matter of faith in Jesus Christ or Buddha or Muhammed or anyone else, when other variables enter the picture! I hope you see my point now, if not, I’m afraid you never will.

08-29-2006 03:35 PM

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ang
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ang

Phatkat, Afraid of preachiness are ya? Do you know what a generalization is?

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08-29-2006 07:26 PM

Re: It does not matter housewife or career woman!! Where is the commitment?
ang
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ang

neither is mine. Divorce court is a man made immoral institution where they pull the wool over your eyes like they already have with you and most of society. You seem really angry. Are you angry with Jesus Christ or with women in general?

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08-29-2006 07:30 PM

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porkchops38
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porkchops38

ang wrote:
neither is mine. Divorce court is a man made immoral institution where they pull the wool over your eyes like they already have with you and most of society. You seem really angry. Are you angry with Jesus Christ or with women in general?

Well then wake up and smell the coffee cupcake! You telling people to “stop divorce” is no different than saying “stop airplane crashes” while simultaneously working as a spokesperson for the airline with the most airplane crashes per passenger mile (Dingbat Airlines) in my analogy above. I’m saying “don’t fly on Dingbat Airlines!” – meaning don’t get married if you’re a man because of today’s “immoral institution” called divorce/family court hanging over the head of the man. If you were a man today, would you even think about putting your head on a chopping block where 50% to 60% of the men that put their heads on that block already got their heads chopped off? More and more men are realizing this, and not just any men, but some of the most educated, hard-working, successful, kind, and generous men in America are flatly refusing to even consider marriage to any American woman. Thus, the only men in America that are still getting married are generally men having the opposite of those traits, i.e. foolish, uneducated, lazy, selfish, etc. Obviously then, in the near future we should expect to see the divorce rate enlarge even further unto 70%, 80%, and upwards as only foolish and lazy men get married. In other words, the situation is already spiraling out-of-control to a point in the very near future where the only men who are getting married are the men who are absolute and complete buffoons, whilst all the educated men go there own way and live out their happy lives as they see fit.

Bottom line, if want to harp on something or someone, don’t bark up the tree of the man who refuses to marry under the immoral family court system — go bark up at the immoral family court system. Perhaps if enough of you women bark at each other and then bark at the goverment, maybe the government will change it, as it seems the government only listens to women’s needs and concerns nowadays anyways. Unfortunately, I don’t have that much hope that has a chance to happen, because I don’t seem to see in society that there is any large number of women smart enough to amass and assemble such grievances before the government bodies to affect change at the immoral family court system. You’re welcome to prove me wrong though. Anyways, even in the bible, the first time a female was given authority over a male, everything went to hell in a handbasket in a hurry (i.e. Adam, Eve), and it’s been SSDD (same sh1t, different day) ever since. PEACE OUT!

08-30-2006 11:37 AM

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