Can we go to a prostitute ?


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Can we go to a prostitute ?
Cassius
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Cassius
A lot of women complained how they have to do sex with their husbands like a “good little wife” and how they got liberated by beeing able to say no to their husbands. And they say no. A guy who wants sex like twice a week will have to get accostumed to once a month, 12 times a year, if he is one of the lucky ones. If she has to do as much as empting the dish cleaner shell be “too tired” or will more ofthen than not have an headache.
Now dear wifes if hubby does not pester you for sex can he go to a prostitute in return, or get a girlfriend, or is he just to tie his wiener into a knot ?

08-31-2006 02:32 PM

Re: Can we go to a prostitute ?
moneyneversleep
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moneyneversleep

If you are married, you already have a whore, albeit one who you are grossly overpaying for and not obtaining sufficient recompense for your money and time.  Ergo, it is better to remain unmarried as the best sex you will ever have is when you are single and it quickly tapers off after you get married.

08-31-2006 02:36 PM

Re: Can we go to a prostitute ?
ftesyektsi
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ftesyektsi

How many other hypothetical complaints can you come up with just to try to stir sh*t?

Y’all are seriously damaged.

Or bored.

08-31-2006 02:38 PM

Re: Can we go to a prostitute ?
dumbbroad
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dumbbroad

or you could marry someone with whom you are sexually compatible? they do exist …

08-31-2006 02:39 PM

Re: Can we go to a prostitute ?
MartianBachelor
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MartianBachelor
Eventually they switch roles and she screws him, royally.

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08-31-2006 02:40 PM

Re: Can we go to a prostitute ?
AngryMuppet
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AngryMuppet
Nothing quite says “I’m a real man” like not bothering to work out your sex life with your wife, and instead hiring someone to pretend to like having sex with you. I applaud your strength and conviction in standing up to your wife by running around with whores behind her back. Now that’s what I call being a “stand-up” guy. Very “decent.”

Oh, and I’d just like to remind everyone that MartianBachelor regularly “monitors” Oprah, The View, and Sex and the City for evidence of their “anti-male” slant. His favorite SATC season is the third. Let’s applaud him as well for being on the front-lines in the battle against women, who despite being dumber and weaker than men, have somehow managed to destroy our entire society right under men’s noses. Not anymore! Martian is on the case!

Message Edited by AngryMuppet on 08-31-2006 02:46 PM

08-31-2006 02:42 PM

Re: Can we go to a prostitute ?
Cassius
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Cassius

ftesyektsi wrote:
How many other hypothetical complaints can you come up with just to try to stir sh*t?

Y’all are seriously damaged.

Or bored.

Angrymuppet it is the mans fault again that he does not work out his sex life with his wife is it ? If she does not want sex in the first place there is nothing she wants to work out with hubby.
It is not a hypothetical problem a mans sex drive is significantly bigger than a womans one in most cases in the long run. Why do you think so many women were enthralled by the feminist goal of not having to cater to their husbands sexual needs ? Given your reaction you must be one of those women. Nothing enrages feminists more than beeing confronted with facts. What i present here is nothing hypothetical or even seldom, but the norm. Instead of suggesting to pray really hard that i find someone Iam “compatibel” with how about answering my question instead of calling what i have to say S+it or assuming my mood ? Trying to avoid REAL discussion again about problems 95% of men in a marriage face.

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08-31-2006 02:59 PM

Re: Can we go to a prostitute ?
fishnamedjames
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fishnamedjames
I’m gonna guess bored.

08-31-2006 03:07 PM

Re: Can we go to a prostitute ?
Cassius
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Cassius

fishnamedjames wrote:
I’m gonna guess bored.

You are an Idiot if you are not willing to work out problems anonymously how can you ever be able to have a relationship with somone who doesnt cater to your every whim ?

08-31-2006 03:20 PM

Re: Can we go to a prostitute ?
ftesyektsi
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ftesyektsi

Cassius wrote:

ftesyektsi wrote:
How many other hypothetical complaints can you come up with just to try to stir sh*t?

Y’all are seriously damaged.

Or bored.

Angrymuppet it is the mans fault again that he does not work out his sex life with his wife is it ? If she does not want sex in the first place there is nothing she wants to work out with hubby.

Things are probably easier for you to understand if you simplify them to yourself, but honestly, not everything can be reduced the way you reduce the following.
It is not a hypothetical problem a mans sex drive is significantly bigger than a womans one in most cases in the long run. Why do you think so many women were enthralled by the feminist goal of not having to cater to their husbands sexual needs ? What are you TALKING about?  When women have complaints about husbands wanting sex, it’s usually in a situation like this:  Woman has been home all day dressing child, feeding child, cleaning up after child, changing child, cleaning house, doing laundry, feeding child again, etc.  Man comes home and woman would love to sit and talk with him and feel interesting and valuable, but – oh – man is putting hand up woman’s shirt.  Next task: provide man with sex when woman would much rather have an adult conversation with the person who is supposed to be her best friend.  HINT:  women feel much more sexual when they feel genuinely liked and appreciated by their mates, and when that appreciation is not just a precursor to sex.  Men and women ARE different, and there’s nothing wrong with that.  Women are simply turned on by different things…like not being taken for granted.  THAT is what enthralls women…not feeling the need to give up sex just because a man wants it.  Given your reaction you must be one of those women. I most certainly am one of those women who knows she is more than a blow up doll. Nothing enrages feminists more than beeing confronted with facts. I love the way you talk about “feminists” like they’re zoo animals.  It’s hilarious. What i present here is nothing hypothetical or even seldom, but the norm. Instead of suggesting to pray really hard that i find someone Iam “compatibel” with how about answering my question. Question answered.  If you are having issues with sex in your relationship, it’s very likely both of you could stand to communicate more. Instead of calling what i have to say S+it It’s not s*it, but it sure is naive. or assuming my mood ? Trying to avoid REAL discussion again about problems 95% of men in a marriage face.

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08-31-2006 03:31 PM

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Reader Response to “Don’t Marry Career Women” – Can we go to a prostitute ?

Re: Can we go to a prostitute ?
Cassius
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Cassius
Looks there is a difference about beeing too tired for sex beeing married to an idiot husband and denying sex constantly. Of course a woman can be too tired to have sex happens to me too. But severely reducing sex no matter how nice he is and feeding him excuses is different. Beeing rejected all the time gets a man angry and bitter and you can forget about him trying then. And no you have not answered my questions to my original post yet.

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08-31-2006 03:43 PM

Re: Can we go to a prostitute ?
AngryMuppet
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AngryMuppet

Cassius wrote:
Beeing rejected all the time gets a man angry and bitter…

Message Edited by Cassius on 08-31-2006 03:44 PM

And finally the truth emerges…

08-31-2006 03:46 PM

Re: Can we go to a prostitute ?
toadman
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toadman

Yep, failure to consumate a legally-binding marriage is against the law in many countries. In the West it’s bait-and-switch.

08-31-2006 03:51 PM

Re: Can we go to a prostitute ?
Cassius
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Cassius

AngryMuppet wrote:

Cassius wrote:
Beeing rejected all the time gets a man angry and bitter…

Message Edited by Cassius on 08-31-2006 03:44 PM

And finally the truth emerges…

Iam sorry i mean beeing rejected by the wife gets a man bitter. If he gets rejected by some girl he just asks another but if cupcake denies sex hes caught between beeing taken to the cleaner for cheating or accept his sexless marriage. Do not be so stupid.

08-31-2006 04:03 PM

Re: Can we go to a prostitute ?
MartianBachelor
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MartianBachelor
Seems quite understandable. Anger is a form of protest.

My answer… Do whatever you’re big enough to do!

I know a lot of guys somehow believe marriage entitles them to sex with their wife, but if they’d just read the tiny little print on the contract.

“A woman’s power lies only in the degree of unhappiness with which she can punish her lover.”
– Marie Henri Beyle (aka Stendhal)

Message Edited by MartianBachelor on 08-31-2006 02:12 PM

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08-31-2006 04:08 PM

Re: Can we go to a prostitute ?
toadman
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toadman

Whoah MB, never heard that one and it rings true. Gracias!

08-31-2006 05:06 PM

Re: Can we go to a prostitute ?
MartianBachelor
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MartianBachelor
No prob, but thanks for the kudo.

Here’s a few more from this dead white misogynst:

“Women prefer emotions to reasoning”

“Since I am a man, my heart is three or four times less sensitive, because I have three or four times as much power of reason and experience of the world — a thing which you women call hard-heartedness. As a man, I can take refuge in having mistresses. The more of them I have, and the greater the scandal, the more I acquire reputation and brilliance in society.”

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08-31-2006 05:31 PM

Re: Can we go to a prostitute ?
PatriarchVerlch
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PatriarchVerlch

Or if we could clone our wives. Or yeah, a girlfriend if they don’t want to put out.

Sex is the only thing girls can control. So they try, let them, or leave them.

I just say I need two or three wives to satisfy me. The head games my wife plays are just sick.

Women have been proving for the last 30 years that men have been right for the last 30 centuries!
http://www.verlch.blogspot.com

08-31-2006 06:23 PM

Re: Can we go to a prostitute ?
Cassius
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Cassius
Headgames ? care to share ?

08-31-2006 11:04 PM

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ftesyektsi
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ftesyektsi

Cassius wrote:
Looks there is a difference about beeing too tired for sex beeing married to an idiot husband and denying sex constantly. Of course a woman can be too tired to have sex happens to me too. But severely reducing sex no matter how nice he is and feeding him excuses is different. Beeing rejected all the time gets a man angry and bitter and you can forget about him trying then. And no you have not answered my questions to my original post yet.

Message Edited by Cassius on 08-31-2006 03:44 PM

You’re making assumptions based on the worst possible outcome.  I, too, can bring up “bad man” things (men! always asking for sex when women are clearly tired.  Men are such sex hogs.  That’s all they want, and women get very angry when men treat them like that’s all they’re good for.).  But, like you, I’m bitsching just to bitsch and am basing that entire rant on supposition, hypothetical situations, and nothing I’ve ever actually heard from a real person.

What’s the point, except to provide myself with reasons to dislike men?

And why would I want to do that?  I love men!  I married one!  (and we have fabulous sex…and quite often, thank you.)

09-01-2006 07:50 AM

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Re: Can we go to a prostitute ?
ftesyektsi
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ftesyektsi

MartianBachelor wrote:
No prob, but thanks for the kudo.

Here’s a few more from this dead white misogynst:

“Women prefer emotions to reasoning”

“Since I am a man, my heart is three or four times less sensitive, because I have three or four times as much power of reason and experience of the world — a thing which you women call hard-heartedness. As a man, I can take refuge in having mistresses. The more of them I have, and the greater the scandal, the more I acquire reputation and brilliance in society.”

Ooh!  The quote game!  How fun!

“In passing, also, I would like to say that the first time Adam had a chance he laid blame on woman.” — Nancy Astor, My Two Countries

“It is funny that the two things most men are proudest of is the thng that any man can do and doing does in the same way, that is being drunk and being the father of their son.” — Gertrude Stein, Everybody’s Autobiography

“In politics if you want anything said, ask a man.  If you want anything done, as a woman.”  — Margaret Thatcher

disclaimer:  I’m not into man bashing…just wanted to volley back some quotes.  (You know, quotes can be found to support anything, and quotes can also be deemed less credible when the source is considered.  Your quotes from a noted mysoginist mean about as much to me as the above quotes, from celebrated feminists, will mean to you.)

09-01-2006 08:00 AM

Re: Can we go to a prostitute ?
ftesyektsi
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ftesyektsi

PatriarchVerlch wrote:

I just say I need two or three wives to satisfy me. The head games my wife plays are just sick.

Well, dude, you picked her, and clearly you’re still with her.  Either do something about it or suck it up, but quit whining.

09-01-2006 08:01 AM

Re: Can we go to a prostitute ?
Cassius
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Cassius
Well “do something about it” would include going to a prostitute to keep in sex and avoiding the wife finding out about a gf and taking him to the cleaners. How come women are all like “a marriage is not easy” but when the real problem start, like a cheating husband, it is an instant divorce ticket.

09-01-2006 08:04 AM

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ftesyektsi
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ftesyektsi

Cassius wrote:
Well “do something about it” would include going to a prostitute to keep in sex Well, sure – if he’s a gutless wonder.  A grown up man would deal with the issue in a grown up way.  Boys run from their problems and seek inappropriate, and quick, fixes that gratify their immediate needs. and avoiding the wife finding out about a gf and taking him to the cleaners. How come women are all like “a marriage is not easy” but when the real problem start, like a cheating husband, it is an instant divorce ticket.

09-01-2006 08:50 AM

Re: Can we go to a prostitute ?
Cassius
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Cassius

ftesyektsi wrote:

Cassius wrote:
Well “do something about it” would include going to a prostitute to keep in sex Well, sure – if he’s a gutless wonder.  A grown up man would deal with the issue in a grown up way.  Boys run from their problems and seek inappropriate, and quick, fixes that gratify their immediate needs. and avoiding the wife finding out about a gf and taking him to the cleaners. How come women are all like “a marriage is not easy” but when the real problem start, like a cheating husband, it is an instant divorce ticket.

Again more shaming. The wife does not want the man to “deal with it” when she goes celibate, she wants him to put up with it and thats it. If you mean by dealing with it to divorce loosing the children loosing the house loosing my money then NO THANKS !!!
Going to a prostitute while keeping the wife good is the adult mature way to deal with such a situation. Taking the worst self destructive course of action is the little boys decision.
Please THINK before you post. To deal with it as you put it is just not a smart thing to do.

Message Edited by Cassius on 09-01-2006 09:02 AM

09-01-2006 09:01 AM

Re: Can we go to a prostitute ?
ftesyektsi
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ftesyektsi

Cassius wrote:

ftesyektsi wrote:

Cassius wrote:
Well “do something about it” would include going to a prostitute to keep in sex Well, sure – if he’s a gutless wonder.  A grown up man would deal with the issue in a grown up way.  Boys run from their problems and seek inappropriate, and quick, fixes that gratify their immediate needs. and avoiding the wife finding out about a gf and taking him to the cleaners. How come women are all like “a marriage is not easy” but when the real problem start, like a cheating husband, it is an instant divorce ticket.

Again more shaming. The wife does not want the man to “deal with it” when she goes celibate, she wants him to put up with it and thats it. On what are you basing these baseless comments?  If you mean by dealing with it to divorce loosing the children loosing the house loosing my money then NO THANKS !!! No, what I mean is, if any person in a relationship is experiencing a loss of something they need, to “deal with it” means to discuss it, figure out what’s wrong and why, and try to come up with a good way to fix it.  If there is an impasse, sometimes – yes – divorce is best.  (No, not every single woman will try to take all your money.  You should get help for your phobia.)
Going to a prostitute while keeping the wife good is the adult mature way to deal with such a situation. Sigh.  Saying it doesn’t make it so.  I can say “Chocolate cake is actually strawberry,” but that doesn’t turn my cake pink.  Taking the worst self destructive course of action is the little boys decision. Why is it self destructive to discuss your relationship with the woman you’ve chosen to spend your life with?  What do you have against an open discussion?
Please THINK before you post. Likewise.To deal with it as you put it is just not a smart thing to do.Something tells me you wouldn’t know “smart” if it fell on your head.

Message Edited by Cassius on 09-01-2006 09:02 AM

09-01-2006 09:13 AM

Re: Can we go to a prostitute ?
Cassius
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Cassius
Well if a woman does not want sex and the man thinks he needs to discuss it she feels pestered for sex and if he does not decide pretty quick to put up there is a good chance she is going to file for divorce.
So you have your own idea on what is “adult” and “mature” how good for you.

09-01-2006 10:49 AM

Re: Can we go to a prostitute ?
MartianBachelor
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MartianBachelor

ftesyektsi wrote: …I love men! I married one! (and we have fabulous sex…and quite often, thank you.)

“Although marital fidelity may be a fine thing, the advertising of it is another matter.” – John Gordon

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09-01-2006 11:24 AM

Re: Can we go to a prostitute ?
ftesyektsi
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ftesyektsi

MartianBachelor wrote:

ftesyektsi wrote: …I love men! I married one! (and we have fabulous sex…and quite often, thank you.)

“Although marital fidelity may be a fine thing, the advertising of it is another matter.” – John Gordon

Yes – heaven forbid someone say something positive about marriage and sex to combat the hysterical negativity on these boards.  Gasp!

09-01-2006 12:00 PM

Re: Can we go to a prostitute ?
MartianBachelor
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MartianBachelor
You said nothing about marriage, only that you were married, like we really care.

Do you even read your own posts before hitting the SEND button?

Or could we say that you’re “hysterical”?

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09-01-2006 12:11 PM

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Cassius
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Cassius
ftesyektsi why is marriage so godamn important to you ? You do not need a piece of paper to love.

09-01-2006 01:01 PM

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ftesyektsi
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ftesyektsi

Cassius wrote:
ftesyektsi why is marriage so godamn important to you ? You do not need a piece of paper to love.

It’s not “so godamn important” to me.  I just felt like pointing out that there are happy unmarried people, and happy married people.

And thanks for your wisdom on the “only a piece of paper” thing.  You’re not teaching me anything, and I don’t disagree.  We got married for our own reasons that had nothing to do with anything regarding contracts and the law.

09-01-2006 01:35 PM

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ftesyektsi
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ftesyektsi

And Cassius, why are you so abrasive?  Do you get some thrill out of being consistently on the attack?

09-01-2006 01:36 PM

Re: Can we go to a prostitute ?
IshWishDish
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IshWishDish
Nothing quite says “I’m a real man” like not bothering to work out your sex life with your wife, and instead hiring someone to pretend to like having sex with you. I applaud your strength and conviction in standing up to your wife by running around with whores behind her back. Now that’s what I call being a “stand-up” guy. Very “decent.”

Oh, and I’d just like to remind everyone that MartianBachelor regularly “monitors” Oprah, The View, and Sex and the City for evidence of their “anti-male” slant. His favorite SATC season is the third. Let’s applaud him as well for being on the front-lines in the battle against women, who despite being dumber and weaker than men, have somehow managed to destroy our entire society right under men’s noses. Not anymore! Martian is on the case!

Oh, AngryMuppet, that made me laugh so hard I hurt myself.

09-01-2006 03:38 PM

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