Would you marry a girl with divorced parents?


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Would you marry a girl with divorced parents ?
Cassius
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Cassius
Hi hello there got a question to the ones still willing to marry. If you find a girl that meets all your criteria, but it turns out her mother removed hubby out of the mansion to live in a tiny hole, would you still take the chance, or is a divorce history in the family a no no from the start ?

09-18-2006 09:00 PM

Re: Would you marry a girl with divorced parents ?
Halladay
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If i was attracted to her and loved her and so forth I probably would. she can’t help what her parents did. but if she’s the career woman the author talked about then.. no.. i wouldn’t marry her regardless

09-18-2006 09:03 PM

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porkchops38
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porkchops38
I would say it depends. It depends upon the reason why her parents divorced, and it depends upon whether or not she learned some valuable lessons about why her parents divorced, it depends upon whether or not she still has emotional scars from her parents divorced, and it depends upon what age she was when her parents divorced. After all these variables, the answer for me could still be “yes”, it just depends upon the answers to these variables.

09-18-2006 09:49 PM

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Back2TheKitchen
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Back2TheKitchen
No.

She needs to grow up being balanced out by both feminine and masculine traits that only a mother and father can provide.

It may not manifest itself right away, but something will be out of balance when cupcake comes from a divorced home.

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“With women or the female mindset imparted through feminization on the vast majority of society, it will be very easy to control the Empire…I mean…the republic.” – mirrorofthesoul.blogspot.com

09-18-2006 10:26 PM

Re: Would you marry a girl with divorced parents ?
Cassius
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Cassius
I would not marry her for a simpel reason. If divorce is no hinderance to her girl to find a hubby of her own, there are absolutly no restraints for a wife to embrace divorce. The mother dishonored the family meanin the daughter is no marriage material anymore. Maybe it is time we take one or two lessons from other cultures.

Message Edited by Cassius on 09-18-2006 10:33 PM

09-18-2006 10:32 PM

Re: Would you marry a girl with divorced parents ?
porkchops38
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porkchops38
It would also depend upon how many eggs are left in her ovaries, what kind of shape her uterus is currently in, and how attractive she looks. The only possible reason for marriage in the first place, is child-bearing.

09-18-2006 11:24 PM

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OneSmartChick
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So if the mother of your intended divorced her father because he was beating the crap out of her – then why is it the mother’s fault the marriage ended.  Can men be responsible for anything?  What if the father was cheating?  My point here is why is a woman divorcing anymore of an issue than a man?    Could it be your intended was shown a model of a women who – gasp – respected herself enought to know that being beatened daily is not acceptable and is a crime punishable by jail – you know, domestic violencd.  And importantly – as you sicko would like her to believe – it’s not her fault that she is being beat on.  I know you think everything is the womans fault right?  It is her fault that he beats her?  It’s her fault that he steps out with younger women?  And of course, it’s feminism’s fault if he rapes her???  Is this what you are saying?  Please don’t have any children.  Daughters deserve better.

09-19-2006 06:16 PM

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ACatInSD
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ACatInSD

Hey smartchick, you still “discuss” this topic with them as normal people? I would suggest you take a break and just watch how twisted these men have turned into.

Divorce is a very complicated situation and each divorce has a different story from the others. These men here don’t have enough IQ to undersand that and just leave them alone. You don’t plan to date any of these do you?!

09-19-2006 06:22 PM

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OneSmartChick
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ACatln SD – You bring up a good point and you are most likely right.  You see, I know of what I speak because I have worked with domestic violence and rape victims and the attitude the men on these boards are displaying, especially to rape is very frightening.   May their daughters  (other signficant women in their lives, if they even have them) never be raped – because telling a rape victim it’s her fault is like being raped again.   These guys blame feminisim for rape.  See other discussion strings…

No, I would never date a man who held a women in so much contempt like these men do.  I am married.

09-19-2006 06:35 PM

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Halladay
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Halladay

ohhhh myyyy..  break out a truckload of kleenex ..  yet more mentioning of precious victims

09-19-2006 06:40 PM

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ACatInSD
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Good for you smartchick And thank you for your post.

09-19-2006 06:44 PM

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OneSmartChick
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Hallady – So you think rape is a victimless crime?  Have you ever seen a rape victim?  Sympathy for crime victims is a basic human emotion – So you seem to lack that…what does that make you?????

09-19-2006 06:46 PM

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Halladay
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Halladay

Hallady – So you think rape is a victimless crime?  Have you ever seen a rape victim?  Sympathy for crime victims is a basic human emotion – So you seem to lack that…what does that make you?????  ……………………

it makes me someone who sticks with the original topic of not marrying a career woman instead of ranting about victims , victims, victims.. and yet more victims, victims, victims, victims , victims..

can i hear an amen for more victims ?

09-19-2006 06:48 PM

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ACatInSD
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ACatInSD

Hey Halladay, stay with this thread and its topic would you? Don’t change your point because you cannot anwer it.

09-19-2006 06:52 PM

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OneSmartChick
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OneSmartChick

Can you read Hallday – the topic of this thread was “Marrying a Woman with Divorced Parents”  –  I pointed out there are reasons a woman would want a divorce – like domestic violence – as another poster said that an intended with divorced parents was already ruined – her mother disrespected her marriage.

One of the guys brought up, on another thread that feminism caused rape, and rape is one form of domestic violence.  I then made the point that a little girl (intended), seeing her mother divorce a man who beat the **bleep** out of her, was teaching the little girl that she had worth and did not have to put up with that – NOW DO YOU GET IT – but oh that might make her a feminist – you know the Radical Notion that Women are Individuals too???

09-19-2006 06:55 PM

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Halladay
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Halladay

well the topic of the thread didn’t mention victims or rape…

but when YOU point something out i am to very studiously and religiously pay attention to it.  .. oh especially when YOU talk about violence..

so instead of paying attention to noer or the title of the thread.. i’m supposed to pay homage to your rants and what  YOU bring up.

don’t flatter yourself so much

09-19-2006 06:59 PM

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ACatInSD
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ACatInSD

Dear smartchick, I need to remind you that some men her regard women as non-humans, as cows, as pigs, as sex objects that being unwillingly f*cked is not a problem at all. Now how dare you call that raped by husbands? Raped by husband don’t exist in their eyes, therefore it doesn’t exist in your eyes as well…

09-19-2006 07:01 PM

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OneSmartChick
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OneSmartChick

Violence was the reason the women ended her marriage – maybe the little girl learned something about self respect – poster said that if intended (formally little girl) has divorced parents, intended cannot respect marriage because mother apparently did not .

I gotta go – you are too slow for me……

09-19-2006 07:02 PM

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OneSmartChick
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OneSmartChick

ACatlnSD – yeah, again you are correct.   I am moving on this evening – I have explained several time to Hallday things that my 10 year old yard boy (or young gentleman) understands so …..I just can’t do it anymore.

Have a good one!

09-19-2006 07:05 PM

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Halladay
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Halladay

I gotta go – you are too slow for me ………..

well at least i will outlast you lol

09-19-2006 07:05 PM

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Halladay
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Can you read Hallday – the topic of this thread was “Marrying a Woman with Divorced Parents”  …

yea DUH… nothing was mentioned in the original post about your victimhood, rape, violence etc..

09-19-2006 08:27 PM

Re: Would you marry a girl with divorced parents ?
Cassius
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Cassius
Look i do not care why the divorce took place. There have been too many already and what are the chances anyway that i pick THE one girl whose mother divorced because she got beaten by her husband, instead of just beein bored by him like all the other divorcees. Having always present how grandad got scrwed over for what Iam about to do and still doing (marrying providing) is not how I intend to live my marriage. Its my decision to marry or not the responsabilty will rest squarely on me and only on me for my and her actions. I have no intention to debate over the way i make my decisions, unless you think the way might harm me and only mean good. You girls should congratulate me for acting mature and minimizing the risk of divorce which will cost me dearly. I mean geeze what are you gonna do next ? Scold me for driving carefully ?

Onesmartchick wrote

“My point here is why is a woman divorcing anymore of an issue than a man? ”

What are you ? Stupid ? Retarded ? Or dont you just get it ? Did you read ANY of the posts ? Why should a woman fear the husband might decide to divorce ? Because of the house she gets ? The opressing Alimony he pays her ? The assets he has to turn over to her ? Get real. If you are smart you sure do not deem us worthy to display your cerebral skillz.

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09-19-2006 10:15 PM

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ACatInSD
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ACatInSD

I think you are stupid, retarded and irritated because you cannot answer her questions directly.

Enhance your IQ and EQ and then jump back.

09-20-2006 01:22 AM

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Happy_Bullet
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Happy_Bullet

Have you ever seen a rape victim? Sympathy for crime victims is a basic human emotion – So you seem to lack that…what does that make you?????

I dunno about him but it makes me ASSHHHHAAAAAAMMMMEEEDDD!@!!!!

My **bleep** is so small I couldn’t have sex with a woman anyway, consensual or not. Wait I’m having sexual thoughts. Uh oh I need a rape counsellor to tell me I’m a filthy rapist and get help. I dunno anger management isn’t specific enough, there should be rapedrive management classes!! CUT IT OFF CUT IT OFF!!

I am moving on this evening – I have explained several time to Hallday things that my 10 year old yard boy (or young gentleman) understands so …..I just can’t do it anymore.

So you’re complaining that Halladay is more difficult to brainwash and self-esteem destroy than a 10 yr old boy? Oh dear. I’m close to tears on that one.

because telling a rape victim it’s her fault is like being raped again.

Yeah that is why they must ALWAYS BE BELIEVED. No matter how crap the evidence. Those poor victims and they are ALL victims you know. I mean have you SEEN the HURT rape or domestic violence causes to the poor victims?!?

as another poster said that an intended with divorced parents was already ruined – her mother disrespected her marriage.

Naturally!! That is why these small exceptions must mean that a general rule never be followed. Thanks for pointing that out you patent retard. Also men are directly responsible for divorce once in a blue moon, yes, that definitely had to be pointed out.

I can just imagine this evil biitch going back to that 10 yr old boy to shame him about “those horrible men on the Internet”. Watching his naive, dumb nods when she asks him if he is going to be different and do what she says.

Message Edited by Happy_Bullet on 09-20-2006 05:03 AM

Men have standards. Women will be compared. DEAL WITH IT.

09-20-2006 03:14 AM

Re: Would you marry a girl with divorced parents ?
Cassius
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Cassius

ACatInSD wrote:
I think you are stupid, retarded and irritated because you cannot answer her questions directly.

Enhance your IQ and EQ and then jump back.

I did answer the question directly you stupiid biitch. Did you even bother reading it ? It takes sheer idiocy to ask such a question if you spent reading only a fraction of the posts on this forum. I will repeat my answer hoping it will get past your idiocy, what else can I do ? There is no reason for a woman to fear the man will divorce, while a man has every reason to fear his wife will divorce thats why a woman divorcing is a bigger deal than a man divorcing. I bet you will display how DUMB and STUPID you are by asking me of the whys. How many times did it take telling you you must lift the toilet lid before taking a piss ?

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09-20-2006 07:52 AM

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