2006 State of our Unions Rutgers University National Marriage Project


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2006 State of our Unions Rutgers University National Marriage Project
khankrumthebulg
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khankrumthebulg
If you google Barbara Dafoe Whitehead and go to Rutgers University download the latest report for 2006 on the State of Marriage. I did and printed out the 32 page report. Makes for fascinating reading. Facts are hard to dispute. This weekend Media reports about the Tsunami of Anchor Babies in our Border states shows we are not having enough children to replace our populace. This has some ominous portends for our Social Safety Net. The Cat Herders have not heard the screaming yet. When Social Security collapses completely and they are looking at real poverty they will see the real fruits of Feminism.

The Hildabeast wants to use your tax dollars to fight the Global Poverty of Women. Yes that’s right, I thought their Governments were responsible for that. No Hildabeast wants us to rescue them with our incomes. This is the self absorbed Lesbian Agenda Hitlery is promoting. The perfect Career Woman.

What is remarkeable about the Report is the wholesale removal of Biological Fathers from their children since 1960. Something the Career FemNags here have completely ignored. Would you buy a car and make the payments for 18 years for someone else to drive? Not interested in such a deal? Why get Married if it is not to have children? And yet the Women posting on this board do not address this issue. And adamantly refuse to. To hell with them.

We are coming to a modern Harpers Ferry moment. When the American Republic being over run with Mexico’s poor, our Entitlement Mentality Women and Government Oppression cause the Second American Revolution.
Civil War is coming to America again, or at least war with Mexico. And neither party is doing anything about it.

09-25-2006 06:50 AM

Re: 2006 State of our Unions Rutgers University National Marriage Project
Mamonaku
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Mamonaku
Nice!

Been looking forward to reading the report for 2006.

09-25-2006 07:12 AM

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Back2TheKitchen
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Back2TheKitchen
‘Border baby’ boom strains S. Texas
More illegal immigrants are pouring into the state to give birth

http://www.chron.com/disp/story.mpl/front/4209908.html

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“With women or the female mindset imparted through feminization on the vast majority of society, it will be very easy to control the Empire…I mean…the republic.” – mirrorofthesoul.blogspot.com

09-25-2006 08:11 AM

Re: 2006 State of our Unions Rutgers University National Marriage Project
MartianBachelor
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MartianBachelor
I have mixed feelings about Whitehead’s work. I haven’t gotten to the newest annual report yet, but have read the previous ones, as well as her two books. While the data and raw info can be helpful, the spin she puts on things makes be uncomfortable and I don’t think her grasp of the bigger picture is complete. Her work is extremely feminacentric most of the time (though clearly not feminist), and the sorts of things us MRA’s are saying gets short shrift w/her if she’s aware of them at all.

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09-25-2006 11:01 AM

Re: 2006 State of our Unions Rutgers University National Marriage Project
Back2TheKitchen
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Back2TheKitchen
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7/21/2005
Impairment Begins with the First Marriage: Popenoe’s New Study
by James D. Carmine, Ph.D.

Friends don’t let friends marry friends, or drive drunk. David Popenoe’s new study published this week, “The State of our Unions,” demonstrates what most young men already figured out after they saw what their dads went through: If you never marry you never pay the penalty of divorce. Though Popenoe is the national cheerleader for marriage, his new study suggests something very different. As stated in the report:

“The most noteworthy changes this year are the continuing decline of the marriage rate accompanied by an increase in the number of cohabiting couples; a small increase in the percentage of children living in fragile families and born out of wedlock; and a sharp increase among teenage boys in their acceptance of unwed childbearing….”

That’s right boys, if you never marry, you can keep your car and your house and even your retirement. The cost of child support is tolerable, but the violence of joint property distribution is a 90-mile-an-hour car wreck. But what is truly best, is that if you never marry you are more likely to keep the woman you love too. There is no monetary or legal incentive for her to leave you or you her.

What Popenoe is telling us, whether he means to or not is that guys have finally figured out that the divorce industry is a booming predatory industry that eats, for the most part, straight men. If divorce is the retroactive transformation of marriage into prostitution, marriage is the contract that transforms love into slavery. John Stewart Mill in the Subjection of Women called marriage the last form of legalized slavery in the West. Little did he know how right Hegel was too: In any master/slave relationship inevitably the slave becomes the master and the master the slave.

Yes, marriage in this litigious age is dangerous, too **bleep** dangerous for straight men. And today’s young men wisely figured out they only had to resist marriage to escape the twin perils of angry feminism and liberal legalism. But the lesson was never that far away, no further than Aristophanes’ Lysistrata. Yes, women want sex and love too, just like men, and they too will stop all their wars if that is the only way they can have love and sex.

So, don’t give in boys. Don’t do it. Understand the real message in Popenoe’s study, stay away from the diamond-ring counter. I know she is beautiful. She always is. But, now, finally we can have love and partnership and avoid the malice of marriage. Boys, just say no… to drugs and matrimony, and whatever you do don’t get nostalgic. If you do, just ask some old guy who lost it all because he signed the document that enslaved him to a life of spousal support, and cold cereal for dinner every night so he can afford McDonald’s on the four nights a month he’s allowed to have his kids over for dinner.

Oh and don’t just take my word for it take Mark Ruffolo’s:

“After three years of marriage, my wife divorced me. Privately she told me she was unhappy and I did not make her happy. Publicly she called me abusive. Blessed with an only son born May 3, 2000, Mark Anthony.

Without due process, but as a matter of routine, after a fifteen minute discussion before a Kane County, Illinois family judge, I was awarded four days every month to parent our son; ordered to pay $2,600 in support; $200,000 of my savings frozen; and, an order of protection entered against me for my wife.

After three years, over one hundred court calls, $150,000 in legal fees, and three jobs, I lost a successful career; involved in a dozen incidents calling for police; imprisoned; filed for personal bankruptcy; car repossessed; and evicted from my apartment, but won joint custody in Illinois to which 17% of fathers win. Last February, however, my wife in retaliation had my visitation suspended, and still the Kane County Circuit Clerk refuses to accept $15,000 in proof of payments as credit for court ordered support paid.

I do not beleive most marriage end with this much drama, however, when push comes to shove, a woman knows that she is king of the castle as she has the courts, culture, friends, and family to support her.

I regret saying, ‘I do,’ but miss a son and wife.”

James D. Carmine, PhD is the Chair of the Department of Philosophy at Pittsburgh’s Carlow University.

email: carminejd (at) carlow.edu

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“With women or the female mindset imparted through feminization on the vast majority of society, it will be very easy to control the Empire…I mean…the republic.” – mirrorofthesoul.blogspot.com

09-29-2006 07:43 PM

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