Reluctantly Divorced


Reluctantly Divorced
khankrumthebulg

You are the Unknown Soldiers of the Culture Wars.

Like the soldier buried at the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier, no one knows your name. But at least everyone recognizes what the Unknown Soldier died for. Unlike the soldier buried at the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier, no one knows that you have died a thousand deaths, or what you died for. You are the Reluctantly Divorced.

You are among the large and invisible group of Americans who were divorced against their will. You did not want to be divorced. You wanted to work on the marriage. But the unilateral divorce laws in this country allow one party to end a marriage, without cause or penalty, so you are divorced, like it or not. One person can end a marriage for any reason or no reason.

Some of these things may have happened to you:

* Your spouse left you for another person.
* Your spouse left you for no reason that makes any sense to you.
* You have been told to “get over it” or “suck it up” by people whom you thought ought to help you, such as relatives, counselors or even clergy.
* Your contact with your children is limited by court order or by the non-cooperation of the child’s other parent.
* Your children’s other parent shows little or no interest in your children. He or she is more interested in the children of their current relationship.
* You have faced costly legal battles to gain access to your children, or to protect your children.
* You feel you have been victimized by an anti-male bias in the family courts.
* You have had your wages garnished or your assets seized to pay for child support or spousal maintenance.
* You have been the victim of a paternity fraud.
* You have been stalked by your ex-spouse

11-17-2006 10:20 AM

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Re: Reluctantly Divorced
moneyneversleep

Get over it. No fault divorce will never change. It will always be here.

11-17-2006 11:19 AM

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Re: Reluctantly Divorced
khankrumthebulg

In 1999 US Men married 5000 Foreign Wives. By 2003 the numbers had reached 37,500. This is a trend. And an examination of these Men shows they are amongst the best candidates for Husbands. Most are degreed, affluent, high earning Men. Scared of the financial liabilities of Divorce, long term Marriage data shows marriage to Foreign Wives is more stable. And despite the Feminist suggestion that they are all submissive , Mail order Brides. Many are educated, degreed, and realistic about Marriage. I have met several here in North Texas.

Maria received a degree in Public Health at the University of Mexico City, she has a MBA as well. Her Husband is a Doctor practicing in Plano Texas. She is a Latin beauty. But she is Feminine, sweet, hard working, in short a “Catch”. The affection between her and her Husband is visible. She looks in his eyes and affectionately kisses him in public, some 10 years after they were Married. Concepcion is from Chile, her Husband Mike owns a Locksmith Shop and had 15 trucks in his Business. She has a Degree in Accounting and Finance. She is sweet, has a great sense of humor, and is very attractive. She says out right that she loves her Husband Robert, is lucky to have a Good Man as a husband and comes from a Family with money. Her Father is a Banker back home. They have 4 kids.

Oksana married James. He is 25 years her Senior. He made a fortune in his 30s, he is now in his 60s. She still dotes on him. They have 3 children. Two are in College. One going to SMU, another to UT Austin. They have a 7 year old her last child. He is patient, kind towards her, defers to her wishes. She is sweet to James, affectionate, and Manages a Retail Store with him in Carrollton. She told me she likes the mild winters, and their Home in Aspen is great when they want to go skiing. She told me Russian Women treasure Good American Men. They have been together for more than two decades. She says she is very happy with James. When they look at each other you can see the love and devotion in their eyes. I see the same look when my Dad and Mom look at each other. They have been married 51 years.

Unless American Women insist on changes. Marriage will die or become very rare in the US. Men are wising up in huge numbers. And stories like the one of the Woman who murdered her Boyfriend aired on the Tom Leykis show will continue to scare Men off to relations between the genders here. When the Male Birth Control Pill becomes available. Accidentally Spawning an Annuity (Accidental Pregnancy) will cease in significant numbers. Except for the lowest income members of our culture. Rant on Moneyneversleeps. You are denying reality and what statistical data is revealing. Are you a member of the Flat Earth Society?! Your postings suggests you are here to Stir the pot only.

11-20-2006 08:42 AM

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Listen, cut and paste idiot…
moneyneversleep

you are Luddite, not I. I don’t yell uselessly against that which will not change. I have no desire (nor will it happen) that our country will be shot back into time before women’s suffrage. You are a complete imbecile arguing uselessly against issues which are over and done with. Solve your own problems and you will find life is easier. You obviously had a bad divorce, from bad choices. Get over it. Move on. Be a man.

11-21-2006 03:29 PM

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Re: Reluctantly Divorced
khankrumthebulg

You are a Woman. Typical shaming language of a FemNag. Insults without addressing the issues. I have in fact moved on. Am Remarried, and have a Senior Executive Position. Your inability to analyze reality shows you are the one living in the fantasy world. Get a clue dumbass. Today the reports on Associated Press is that 37% of US Children are born out of Wedlock. If you are going to debate try using some Facts, Stats, or some kind of rational and coherent argument. You bore me.

11-21-2006 06:18 PM

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Re: Reluctantly Divorced
moneyneversleep

No, sh*t for brains, I am not a woman. I am quite a successful investment banker. I am a graduate of one of the 3 US Military Academies with my Master’s from one of the 3 most prominent Ivy League MBA programs. I did fly fighters in combat. My primary residence is in Newport Coast, CA with homes in Seattle, New York and overseas. I am not stupid, like you. I have not made the critical mistake of getting married. If I were to get married I would plan my estate and exit strategy carefully, have a prenuptial agreement where I made full disclosure with a confidentiality and penalty clause. I would file separate tax returns. I wouldn’t whine like a b*tch, like you are. If you have had your *ss handed to you, that is your fault. You didn’t prepare properly for the very real possibility and 50/50 likelihood of divorce. Grow up. Be a man. Don’t expect women to be honorable and decent. They won’t be. Quit your b*tching and complaining. You are like a woman. H*ll, you probably are a woman.

11-22-2006 11:44 AM

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Re: Reluctantly Divorced
moneyneversleep

Here is an example of individuals who had excellent prenuptial agreements, sh*t for brains: Ron Perelman, Donald Trump, Ron Burkle and others.

Get your facts straight rather than whining. You wouldn’t survive in my world. P*ssy.

11-22-2006 11:48 AM

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Re: Reluctantly Divorced
khankrumthebulg

My Bad you are a Feminized Male. One who has drunk the Kool Aid of the Feminists. Congratulations on your Career as an Investment Banker. It does not change a thing about our Toxic Culture. While you come here and insult those who you disagree with. Data indicates that Children born out of Wedlock to Hispanic Mothers is 50% or more. And that bodes ill for the hope that assimilating Hispanics through amnesty will have any positive impact on our Republic. Instead it will be an incubator for more Crime and a new underclass.

Its bad enough that we have destroyed the Black Family, and created a massive criminal underclass of Black males in America. Now we are poised to do the same with Hispanic Males. This is progress?

11-23-2006 09:03 AM

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Re: Reluctantly Divorced
moneyneversleep

Keep drinking the jim jones kool-aid. Try personal responsibility and making good decisions rather than acting like an adolescent blaming everyone else, including “feminists” for your being disenfranchised. I should have known being from white trash central, Texas, that would be your attitude.

11-24-2006 11:59 AM

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Re: Reluctantly Divorced
conservative

To MNS , why dont you admit that you are a woman ? Why do you say stuff like you are a man etc etc ? Are you insecure about the fact that you are a woman ? Or do you feel that if you pose as a man, your otherwise stupid pathetic points will have validity?

Sorry , thats not the case. You are a woman and you are just using that you are a man to get people to notice what you say.

And what an imagination – you are an investment banker. That’s cool , isn’t it!!!

11-24-2006 10:58 PM

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Re: Reluctantly Divorced
moneyneversleep

Keep drinking the koolaid, **bleep**. You wouldn’t survive 5 minutes with me, intellectually or physically. Not to mention that my income is exponentially greater than yours. I have served and mopped up better men than you in much less time than I spent writing this.

11-25-2006 02:03 PM

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Re: Reluctantly Divorced
barron55

I agree. MNS is a radical feminist who hates reading about the truth. And her posts reveal her stupidity.

06-18-2007 04:11 AM

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